Help! Help! Date of Conception! = /

[BlissBaby]

Please I AM STRESSING AND NEED SOME ADVICE! (=

Broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years had "goodbye sex" through Feb. 17-19.....Then I went on Vacation after that to Hawaii and had a one-night stand on Feb. 28...

I found out I was pregnant and on Monday, April 21 got my first Ultra Sound that said I was 8 weeks and 3 days.....My periods are VERY irregular (sometimes i dont get one)

When did I concieve this baby??  Dr's are being unhelpful. PLEASE HELP! = /

[BlissBaby]

thats what my feeling is saying ! I just wanted to
believe it was my ex's since I still loved him and he would have been a great daddy )=

Nevertheless.. All I'm wishing for is a healthy baby that I will shower with lots of love...
on another brighter side - I have been chatting with the vacation guy a few times over the Internet bc he lives halfway around the world..  Haven't told him yet b/c I wasn't sure if the baby was his... Should I tell him now ?  Boy did I get myself in a huge pickle...

Thanks to all
the mommas for helping me.. I wish all the best to you and your little ones

[feather2e]

By the pregnancy calculator it says conception took place march 7th so it would have to have been about a week before when you had sex. It looks like this was a vacation baby. I am sorry. this is the website.   http://www.intmed.mcw.edu/clincalc/pregnancy.html

[lisaywg]

Don't forget that when you conceive, you are already considered to be 2 weeks pregnant.  Typically the first day of your last period is considered to be "week 1".  Hope that helps a bit.  

[BlissBaby]

yes they said my due date is November 28th...,

When I count back 12 weeks and 1 day (which is what i currently am according to my first ulta sound a month ago ) I get a date of feb 25 - I dont know how that's possible since I wasn't with anyone during that time... But ive done some research and they say that it could b off 3 days - or +

I dont know ! / =.      What do you think ladies ?

[FEOT]

So if you were 8 weeks 3 days that makes you 12 weeks now!! I did some reasearch i mean all these calendar stuff may not be 100% accurate but im sure its close. It says conception must of happen the first week of march.  It sounds like it must of happen in Hawaii. Sorry...hopefully the Doctors can be of more help. Do you have a due date yet?

[lisaywg]

If your periods were regular, I would guess that your baby was conceived the first or 2nd week of March.  Just a guess of course, and since your periods are not regular, it may be harder to tell.  I hope you get more help from the doctors.

All the best to you!