to find out or not to find out?

[hope_peace]

Alright ladies soo I have a pretty hard question.
DH and I from early on desided we were going to find out the sex of the baby. Its killing me not knowing.
so Our u/s appointment is Monday this monday and last night my husband was like are you sure you want to find out the sex because I kind of don't want to. and I'm like :O no no please don't say that. and he says he'll find out but you can tell in his voice he really doesn't want to know. but I doooo and we planned from the beginning to find out so now what do we do? I'm so set on finding out but I don't want to dissapoint my husband

[1st]

Let us know the news!  Can't wait to hear!
-1st

[hazleyez]

hope i cant wait :0) i am excited lol.. i will be waiting for u to announce its a BOY/GIRL

[Cherie762]

I will be looking for your announcement Im guessing boy for you ! we do you have name ideas? My son and future DIL want to name son Chase, Yuck, before they wanted Travis I liked that better, but its their baby Im just greatful hes perfect and healthy thus far.Good luck tommrow,,cant wait to hear from you hugs, Cherie

[hope_peace]

haha oh was Cherie your sons girlfriend is soo lucky I'm hoping jellybean will show us his good so we can find out. Hubby changed his mind and he wants to find out. ::) soo I'm soo excited. we go tomorrow at 2:15 so as soon as I know I'll message it on here

[Cherie762]

I found out my Nov grandbabys sex last week, its a boy, its kinda good to know especially for first baby so you can prepare, and people can buy the right stuff for shower etc,,,One thing that bothered me a bit was so many family members me included had voiced that we where hoping for a girl, from now on I wont ever do that again, I seen the ultraound being done saw that little miracles hands feet, even toes,,so I am happy as can be,,,,,one hint if you really dont want to know sex be careful,,cause the tech didnt even have to tell us, the baby was spread eagled and it was soooooo very obvious it was a boy, From the ultrasounds I have seen its a bit more difficult for a non medical person to tell a girl at 20 weeks or so, but even my son who has zero medical knowledge, was like whohh, its a boy

[bny807]

thats a great idea!!!

[hazleyez]

yes exactly what amy said its a great idea... :0)

[hope_peace]

:O I LOVE IT!!! thank you so much Amy I'm hoping he'll change his mind

[amy0013]

What if you have the sonographer write it on a piece of paper in a sealed envelope.  That way if he does change his mind (or you can convince him) you don't have to worry about "missing the chance" with your ultrasound on Monday?!  Just a thought.

My best friend did this (her husband did not want to know).  It took less than two hours after they got home before HE was begging to open the envelope!  :)  Maybe it would work for you guys.  :)