Soooo my family and friends are throwing me a baby shower because I refused to throw my own due to the stress and cost of having one. Here's the problem everything is still being left up to me to decide such as menu,decor,favor,cake etc... Now i did agree to ordering the invites which since i wanted to keep things simple was for 50 people. Which my MIL has busted that count already.I'm constantly getting calls about what they should do and if I want certain things or not and not to mention that we're having it at my MIL house, which we don't get alone very well anyway. She's trying to make it something other than what I wanted which is a very casual inexpensive co-ed shower! More like a baby celebration excluding all of the typical shower games. She's even gone as far as to invite people who have never met me or my husband!I'm starting to feel like not even showing up and just calling the whole thing off. Am I just being ungrateful??