When to tell??

[Wendycmiami]

I'm due Nov. 12. I feel it is wayyyyy too soon to tell people. I've only told my husband, best friend & trainer. It's sooo hard to talk to my friends, co-workers, & family members  without wanting to blurt it out! If I told people & then the pregnancy didn't last, I would hate everyone to know that. I would have to constantly be telling everyone that I'm fine, I don't want pity. So I'm choosing to wait until the 2nd or 3rd month. But it's torture! How do you deal???

[laura_rowsell]

We conceived Valentine's Day too lol

[strawwwberry]

I had my 1st doctors appointment the other day and telling her was so strange! It felt wrong even though it was right ;-D I'm due Nov 14th... Valentines conception eh, how romantic! ;)

[lunahbliss]

I decided not to tell till my 2 trimester. I completely understand were ur coming from. Does feel better to wait just a lil while then tell all. Congrats to u & good luck!

[lunahbliss]

I decided not to tell till my 2 trimester. I completely understand were ur coming from. Does feel better to wait just a lil while then tell all. Congrats to u & good luck!

[Wendycmiami]

Thank you for the insight!

[Third_on_the_way]

First baby, huh? :) Not that every pregnancy isn't special, but the more you have, the easier it is not to talk about it.  I like the advice given to enjoy the secret connection, secret language you and dh have.

[strawwwberry]

In my previous experience I think its not only safer for you and for baby, if you tell people too early you make for a very long pregnancy. I also love the time when only myself and my husband know. You never get that back so enjoy every stage :)