need more room

[holley1013]

I live n a studio apt that is barely big enoigh for one person and my bf lives with me . Normally i spend so much time at work that i dont really care that his crap has taken over every inch of space there is. But with my baby due in 10 weeks i need some space for her .and all he can do is sleep all damn day and not help me its so frustrating. Im already worried about how im gonna pay rent when i have to be off work and now i have to deal with him being a lazy selfish ***. I jjst dont know what to do anymore. I dont want to kick him out and break up with him but if hes not gonna help me and only thinks of himself then i dont see how having him out of my life would make a big differnce.

[cnicolelester]

Same here.  One bedroom apartment, and he plays music so there's studio equipment everywhere.  I started talking to him about needing some space, he just moved his stuff to a corner of the living room, and helped measure out a couple places in the bedroom for the crib and maybe a table.  If your man doesn't want to grow up and realize it's about more than him, he needs to go.  You don't need that stress on top of being close to your due date, nor do you need to deal with that when you have that baby to take care of later on.  There are work at home programs that will bring in the rent money until you get back to work, and don't forget about WIC and food stamps.  Stay strong honey, don't let him get you down.

[pris08]

Make him clean that **** out.. I didn't have room either but then me and the bf started putting some stuff in storage