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Miscarriage

I just left the ER and was told I'm at the beginning stages of a miscarriage, I was 6 weeks. Any advice or kind words would be appreciated. Thank you in advance. I've never dealt with this before,  and have never been pregnant. My boyfriend and I were so excited.
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I had a miscarriage Back in October. It was my 1st, and it was very hard for my babys father and I. It took me a long time to get over it. It still hurts , but my advice is that you talk to those Who been threw the same thing. If you hold your emotions in..it just makes it worse.so stay strong and think positive. Take it as a blessing. I know , what do you mean a blessing...but maybe God new something was already wrong with the baby and did this so it'd be less painful for you.. That's what I had to tell myself. When its your time, it will happen again ❤stay Strong❤
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I had a Misscaridge about 7 months ago. It is really hard. It was also my first pregnancy. Stay strong, things will get better you just need to give it time. Xxxxx
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Thank you all so much.  I hope we get a rainbow baby sooner rather than later.  It's the weirdest feeling to be so upset and sad about something that was new to my life for only a few weeks.  But we had been planning on having a baby for almost 2 years, and had picked names and made plans.  
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I also already have 2 kids but it doesn't make it any easier, it's just hard to understand why, so stay strong and good luck!!
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I had a miscarriage with twins in Nov I was 9 weeks and I just found out I'm only 4 weeks but I'm pretty sure I just had another miscarriage 2 days ago, I'm waiting on my blood work to come back to be positive, it's very hard emotionally so just make sure you have a good support system because it helps so much!!
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Thank you ladies.  
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I had a miscarriage in 2010 it is such an awful empty feeling.. I am so sorry you are experiencing this pain I wish you peace and comfort, and your baby is an angel again, and will always be in your heart this takes time to get over so don't feel bad for how you feel, you are entitled to it for as long as it takes you are the one who experienced it all first hand. Take good care.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you. I had a 12 week scan in 2011 only to find out the baby had stopped developing at 10 weeks it was deviated and probably the end of my marriage. My advise would be is to talk about and allow ure self to grieve your loss. I let it eat away at me and ultimately caused a massive diruption to my life. I am not 7w5d and have been through every emotion possible. May God give you the strength to get through this terrible time and bless you with the joy and a child as soon as u are ready xxxxx
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My prayers are with you. I had a miscarriage in May 2014 at 6 weeks 4 days pregnant. It was so heartbreaking and it'll get harder before it gets better. Don't be afraid to cry and let all your emotions out. Me and my fiance even though it was impossible to know the sex of the baby, to make it easier instead of calling the baby "it", I had this feeling I was having a girl so we gave her a name and I got a cute necklace with her name on it. It helped so much giving our baby a name. You'll never forget this but it will get better. You have an angel and I pray you get your rainbow baby in good timing.
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Thank  you
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Pray pray pray for peace comfort closure ive lost babies before its so  hard i know i dont know You but i wish i could just hold you i know how bad it hurts i hope that you get all the support and love you need during this sad time!
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