Sometimes we have to make ourselves a family of people who love,support and respect us because not all of us are born into a blood family that does. Let your friends throw you a shower and enjoy it!
I'm not even having a baby shower because like you my family won't attend because I'm not married and plus I have no friends and baby daddy family don't like me which I can't see why they don't know me to not like me
Sorry to hear :(. I would definitely allow your friends to throw you a shower and make the best of it! Your family may possibly cone around once that see that baby's face. Only time will tell (unfortunately!) . Good luck!