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13015626 tn?1430505391

sex question

For the past month now I have not been wanting to have sex as much as before and certain activities don't feel the same. My boyfriend is starting to feel unwanted because of this but I'm trying to tell him tht this happens during pregnancy is anyone else feeling this way???
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13015626 tn?1430505391
Thank you ladies helped out a lot!
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I had basically no sex drive for the first eleven weeks. I'm thirteen weeks now and it is definitely back! Not completely normal (it was very high before) but closer, for sure. First trimester usually comes with a lag in sex drive so as much as it *****, most likely it will pass.
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Ive also been feeling that way. I am 11wks & 2 days-- and this Friday will officially start my 2nd trimester. I am PRAYING that I will want to have sex again after that! My 1st trimester was just such a turnoff with all of the symptoms I was experiencing. I hate it because I don't feel as connected with my hubby when we don't have sex at LEAST once every 2 weeks! Of course we are still close...but we are definitely both missing that intimacy! I have higher hopes for trimester #2. We will see what happens!
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I'm in the same boat. Never had a high sex drive & my husband does bt I can keep up. Lol Bt since I've been pregnant I'm not interested. I dnt even find him attractive. Can't stand his breath or anything & he never could keep his hand's off of me bt my pregnant body makes him even worse. I dnt kno wt to do. I gibe in from time to time bc he is my husband & I have to understand his need's as well be it leave's me feeling annoyed, even disgusted. Can't wait for this to be all over & to hold our little chocolate drop. ❤
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I didn't want sex with my first. For nine months I probably have in a few times, once a month. This time I want it but only one terms when I'm in the mood. He will just have to understand. I told my husband that he had a hand to take my place while I didn't want it. As soon as my baby was born I was so ready to have sec again.
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I was a horn dog, and ever since I was pregnant with my first I just want to be left alone. Now pregnant with my second,  it's even worse!!  
Your body is changing and your hormones are going nuts, some people get more frisky and some want to hide in a bubble ;)
My husband felt the same way, he didn't understand the first time around.  But with alot of talking this time he's much better. And I do work some compromises so I can sleep in and he will be happy ;)
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Yes i feel the same way. Lol i really i dnt care for sex right now, and its funny cuz befor i love it.haha
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