hubby help?

[zulema1015]

So me and my hubby were very close before I always wanted him next to me hugging me and kissing me...now it's all changed. I don't want him touching me at all I am trying my hardest to still be affectionate but for the most part I end up pushing him away. He just confessed that he doesn't feel like I love him anymore and he wants to put things on hold. Someone help please I do love him and I tell him that but he says my actions contridict my words. Any advise?

[watermelon15]

I went through that as well with my first and this pregnancy. I just had to explain to my husband I am hot, I feel sufficated, I feel like my body has been taken over and I want space. It was rough but after my hormones went back to normal I was my same old self. Tell him it's normal, other women go through it, and it does go back to normal. Just out of curiosity are you having a boy? Everyone I know who went through this had a boy. Something about the different hormones. Lol.

[Octmommy2015]

I got that way too I used to jump his bones and beg for cuddle time at night and by the time I was 8 weeks I couldn't stand being near him I didn't want to touch him or kiss him or even look at him and it caused a lot of fighting for us as he started to feel like I was only with him to get prego and that was it. I just had to keep explaining  to him that it wasn't him it was all my hormones and I didn't even like to look at myself and that I was sorry. It took a few rough weeks but I'm 17&4 now and things are getting better. Just be open sit down and really talk to him explain to him that it's really not him.. he will come around

[PatricksMommy]

My husband use to call me a leach!  I was always very affectionate. When I got pregnant with my first kiddo, I just switched. I didn't want to be touched, I wanted to be left alone. We went through a rough patch. I really think it was the hormones.  Then my son was born and he took up all if my time and energy.
we had to have many talks about it, keep lined of communication open. I think it's  just hard for men to really understand.  But my husband and I are in a better place now.