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newborn and news of cheating partner
Hi all I'm really struggling .
My baby is 3 months old next week and I decided to work in the uk whilst I was pregnant for financial reasons and to have the baby there for passport reasons. My partner stayed back in our home country and we spoke every day and I visited once and he come over for the birth .
Now that I have returned a month ago our relationship is clearly grown apart but we want to work to fix it . until last night I got wind of a woman who tells me my partner was doing drugs(which I am VERY against ) and partying with this woman till all hours of the morning . she almost fell off her chair when my friend told her he had a pregnant girlfriend overseas . she said he claimed he was single and was going to uk in Dec for business.. Not to have a baby !
O have also heard from numerous sourced there was a white polo parked outside my house some week nights and all weekends. This I have no proof of who it was .
I don't trust him at all and I don't really have anywhere to go other than be a burden to my mom .
Please say anything my stomach is in knots and I havnt slept a wink . and acting like I know nothing is making me. Want to puke .
My baby is 3 months old next week and I decided to work in the uk whilst I was pregnant for financial reasons and to have the baby there for passport reasons. My partner stayed back in our home country and we spoke every day and I visited once and he come over for the birth .
Now that I have returned a month ago our relationship is clearly grown apart but we want to work to fix it . until last night I got wind of a woman who tells me my partner was doing drugs(which I am VERY against ) and partying with this woman till all hours of the morning . she almost fell off her chair when my friend told her he had a pregnant girlfriend overseas . she said he claimed he was single and was going to uk in Dec for business.. Not to have a baby !
O have also heard from numerous sourced there was a white polo parked outside my house some week nights and all weekends. This I have no proof of who it was .
I don't trust him at all and I don't really have anywhere to go other than be a burden to my mom .
Please say anything my stomach is in knots and I havnt slept a wink . and acting like I know nothing is making me. Want to puke .
How was your life going while you were living in UK without him? If it was calm and serene then you have a direction to think about going. It must have been a complicated decision to live apart and if that was more successful then maybe the 2 of you would make better co parents with lots of distance between you.
No one will fault you for leaving a cheater. Consider what you want and decide as an individual.
No one will fault you for leaving a cheater. Consider what you want and decide as an individual.
Your best bet is leaving that relationship you don't need to be in an abusive relationship which is verbal or physical you want to think about your child
He is a compulsive liar and has been mentally manipulating me and abusing me about my weight for quiet some time . so talking it out will only make him mad and he wouldn't ever admit it
Question him about it your best bet is talk it out and go from there
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