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I'm so tired of feeling alone. My boyfriend goes out with his friends every single weekend, all weekend long. I'm sick of being in the house by myself. I understand he's not the homebody type and that I can't do the things we use to do since I'm pregnant, but damn. I complain about it over and over again and he thinks I'm making a big deal outta nothing and tells me to go hang out with my friends when all I wanna do is spend time with him. I'm frustrated as fck!
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I know how you feel. I had my LO last year and I'm pregnant with number 2 and my fiance does the same thing. But you know what, take this time for yourself to relax because there will rarely be any time for yourself once your LO gets here. Trust me
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Ah, I'm sorry to hear this hon.  Ya, having a baby together means that hopefully he's going to step up and be a family man.  This includes not doing everything he did before you got pregnant.  Will it be the same once you have the baby?  He'll be off doing single guy stuff rather than being a dad and partner?  I think you ask him this question.  No, it's not a big deal to hang with friends but it IS a big deal to not realize you need to evolve what you do in life to what is going on, such as having a child.  Family first you'd like to think.  And you want to be his family.  

So, don't complain but ask him his intentions.  what kind of partner he wants to be. What kind of dad he wants to be.  

It's a frustrating situation and a hard spot to be in.  I hope he comes around.  good luck
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I dont thing theres anything wrong with him going out with the boys but every weekend aint kool he can still take u on a Friday to watch a movie or go out on the town have dinner he can drink you can eat
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you should tell em how you feel its not fair you need his attention plus im not sure if its your first baby but once you have your baby your not gunna be able to have that many dates with your boo so go out have some romantic time thats why i tell my husband just cuz im prego doesnt mean im not fun anymore
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