Am I over thinking it?

[ADotty]

I'm not the jealous type and I never bother or have had problems with my boyfriend and other females.  But the past 3 days he's been talking about this one girl non stop, he post on twitter about how cute and funny she is how much he likes talking to her and all that.  Now I don't know her so I asked my boyfriend about her yesterday and he got defensive and gave me a vague *** answer. "she's one of the homies and that's all you need to know"...I really didn't like that answer but I let it go. Today I was talking to my best friend meanwhile my boyfriend was supposed to call me to go over the baby shopping list.  My best friend said she's been texting him all day and he told my best friend that he's been talking to that girl all day as well, Now when he text me back just now he told me he never saw my text messages or my phone calls. When I asked him who he was talking to he said he was talking to his sister. And when I asked about the missed texts and calls he said he forgot to hit me up. My pregnancy hormones want me to get upset soooo bad..
Am I over thinking the situation or what? Sorry for this being so long.  Just needed to vent and I'd like some other opinions :)

[B1128]

Absolutely no way would my man get away with actions such as this!!! I am a jealous person, but have only been that way with him. As I am terrified to lose him, but my man is a good man and would never do this. I would definitely say you are being too forgiving. How dare he speak to you like that as in that's all you need to know, uhm fck you buddy. He's being shady and by claiming her as a "homie" he is giving you no reason to think too much into it (more so trying to do so) while rubbing it all in your face.

I would address the issue and put major boundaries. He is disrespecting you and manipulating you. There's absolutely no way.

[natz1986]

Your not being controlling . if anything your being to forgiving . he should be focused on you and only you and say how cute another girl is on a public forum . I'm sorry but he is not a good guy !

[marilinnb]

Well done. Its time to u overthink abouy you Abd you babe. Dont givr this attention tipe to him. You have a little angel inside of you and this angel dont deserve any bad think or consequente because of this situation. What will happening with you relationship dont depende exclusive you. Dont worry, enjoy your momment and if necessary, after, kick him *** :)

[ADotty]

Yes! Thank you.  I dont want to seem like I'm being controlling but him talking to her doesn't sit right with me.  I'm going to lay down some rules tonight.  

[babyElijah15]

Eeekkk, unfortunately I think he's up to no good. The fact that he keeps talking about her to you it's as if you has no care for your feelings and wants you to be jealous. I would not be OK with my man talking to other females especially All day like you say. I'd be laying down some ground rules and if he doesn't stop I'd kick his a.s.s. to the curb.