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Am I tripping ?

So I went to the kitchen and saw my bf had his phone charging face down and it got to me bc for a while now I've notice he keeps his phone face down all the time like if we are in the car and his phone is playing music and he gets off the car for whatever reason he puts it face down and almost under the seat, if we're chilling on the couch it's face down, and the other day i was like let me use your phone to download an app to play a game since my phone was dead And he was goin in to see his probation officer and I wanted to play a game while I waited and he said calm down ima be right out point is he didnt give me the phone, idk if  I'm overthinking or he's hiding something his phone doesn't have a lock on it and lays around everywhere wit volume always high but his phone is always face down I don't grab it bc im scare to find something like I have a few years ago
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YoU must have a lot of tattoos than lol I know if my bf was a tattoo artist I would be tatted up lol I had a friend who was one and I would skip school back in the day to get tatted lol & that's true my bf and I are also always together he doesn't go anywhere without me but to work lol so I tell myself I'm crazy I know he's not seeing someone else and I doubt he'll have a gf through text messages only & yessss being pregnant and hormonal  s u c k s s s lol
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I know what you mean my boyfriend always has his phone faced down, or when he Goes to the bathroom takes it with him, if he leaves the car and I stay in he takes it. But idk I think I over think it sometimes ya know. Like we're always together, and I don't have an Instagram and he does he has like 15 thousand followers cause he's a really good tattooer but he has that "he's in a relationship" I really don't think he'd cheat on me especially because we're planning on moving to a new state and planning on getting married.. But it still bugs me we broke up for like two months and I moved out so now I just bite my tongue. I mean I doubt he'd have a gf through texting ya know? Like he never talks on the phone and he works from home or goes on trips but idk I hate being pregnant and hormonal :( Ahahaha ugh the struggle!
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Thanks and no he never argues he just says ok when I say ima go through it once it's already in my hand
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Only if he starts arguing with you if you pick up his phone, he's hiding something
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See boo, he loves you and he cares about you :') im glad you let everything out and that he was understanding of your feelings.
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I couldn't help crying so I came upstairs and as i was walking away he was like where u going and i said to my baby's room to fix her clothes he came in a minute later and caught me just sitting here crying and was like what's wrong and I told him that feel since I'm pregnant and I'm getting fat and ugly he's going to find someone else and that I feel like he does stuff behind my back he hugged me and told me he's doesn't do anything and he loves me and my daughter and only thing on his mind is getting right money wise for us and said why u think  I've done all this like getting us a house looking to buy me a car and he made me feel better I told him I came to the room bc i didn't want to cause an argument between me and him bc maybe I'm just crazy thinking stuff
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Lol sometimes when he does get a notification I do open it and say ima go through your phone and he just says ok and i don't since he seems not to care so i forget about it and not do it , & now that I'm pregnant i don't feel attractive anymore so sometimes I think that's why he would talk to someone else
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If u already told him how u feel then all u need to do is get ur hands on that phone lol j/k I'm really serious idk but I'd definitely make him feel my wrath
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To be honest I just grab my boyfriend's phone. If he had a problem with me just randomly grabbing it whenever he received a notification he'd let me know. When i grab it i just say ima look through your phone and he just says okay? Lol. Like you I found things i wish I would've never found almost two years ago. Things went crazy but i managed to forgive him and he's proven to me that i can trust him again (kinda lol). And if he has nothing to hide he won't trip when you just grab his phone.
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I have but he still does it :/ and I told him I dare u to cheat on me in any kind of way and I promise u you'll remember me forever we can do this the courts way wit your daughter or we can do this the nice way u choose, and he says I don't want u doing anything bc u think I'm doing something but I swear if I find out something im making his life living hell his daughter and no I won't take her away from her dad but I know he will hate only being able to see her certain days and hours I know he won't like that and I hate talking like this and I hope we don't go through that but it makes me mad every time I see him lit his phone face down like he's hiding something
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Tell him how it makes you feel that you don't want to loose him that you've been scared he's hiding something and you don't want to feel this way maybe talk to him like that?  
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I do say something sometimes like u don't gotta  hide Your phone no one is going to grab it and he's like you're tripping no one is hiding it im just sooo scare to grab it and find something bc I will go crazyyyyyy and i don't want to act like that while pregnant
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12476392 tn?1433685731
Idk this is hard I'd just tell him how you feel and if things don't change I'd Idk leave if your not happy :/ but I know it's not that simple or easy
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