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Break ups

I just need advice. My boyfriend left me and our children. I'm 30 weeks pregnant with #3, and I can't help but feel a little angry at my pregnancy because according to the father it's the only reason he left. I'm scared I don't want to resent my baby I know its not his fault. How many other moms went through this and how did you cope?
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Mine left me as soon as he found out I was pregnant. He wanted us to be together the rest of our lives and I had a daughter and he had a son who were best friends and he just threw me and my daughter out. I did it by myself the first time I can do it again this time. People make it out being a single mom is bad and extremely hard. Yes it can be hard but there is help put there. I enjoyed being a single mom until I met my ex and thought I found the one then this happened. I will just stay strong and love being a single mom of 2 this time! I'm due in Dec so hopefully will find out this checkup what I am having to prepare. :)
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Pick yourself up and take care of the children and yourself. Any man that can just leave a woman doing pregnancy shows his character and he is not deserving of you or the children.
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I'm going threw something similar. I'm 22 weeks pregnant and my baby's father just started seeing someone else 2 weeks ago. It's been extremely stressful for me and makes me resent him not the baby. Our baby's are blessings and innocent. But I look at it as he doesn't deserve me or my love if he walks out on us. It's his lose not ours. If he's not man enough to stick around he doesn't deserve you!
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