Does your husband or boyfriend always go out while you're pregnant?

[brookekiera]

My fiancé always wants to go out and leave me at home, big and pregnant; then hollars I'm not the one pregnant. Am I going to be alone this whole pregnancy, do I have the right to be mad?

[collinsmumma]

My boyfriend did that for a very veryy long time.. It took me leaving for a while for him to turn around. He always thought he could treat me whatever way he wanted and I wouldn't leave but now he knows and I make it clear, that I can and will leave if he starts to act like that again.

[lashawn86]

I felt the same way with my boyfriend. Last weekend he left me at home Friday night and someone called him to see what he was doing so I got really mad and said I'm tired of being in the house alone. So I called one of my friends and she picked me up and took me to her job to eat and watch the game and later he understood what and where I was coming from

[collinsmumma]

If you don't leave and show him it's not okay, you are going to be the one at home with your child all the time. With 0 help and 0 support.

[brookekiera]

Yes. But he's like he works all the time and never goes out but what he fails to see is, you're always going out! I be feeling like he doesn't care, and I'll just be the one at home all the time with our child

[DanielleM22]

That's some bs on his part. He sounds immature and selfish. I would be mad too if it was happening all the time and he knew it bothered me, or knew I wanted to spend time with him. Have you communicated your feelings clearly and calming to him? Or expressed what you want specifically from him?

[lrbp31]

My daughters dad did the same dam thing to me when I was 8months pregnant and left me at home having contractions and walked away with four girls.I found out he was cheating on me. But it took me to leave to find out that he was cheating.

[brookekiera]

Exactly when he said that I was like, last time I check it takes two people to make a baby @grandmasgirl1929

And thank you so much @collinsmumma I was so mad, I'm going to show him though

[collinsmumma]

No you're not going overboard at all. No he's not pregnant, but the child you're carrying is his and he needs to respect you and be there for you. Nobody wants to be alone 24/7 especially not while pregnant. Good luck to you hun :)

[Grandmasgirl1929]

You might be the one pregnant, but you sure as heck didn't do it alone either.

[brookekiera]

Thank you so much. I'm glad to know I'm not being overboard

[brookekiera]

I guess that is what I will have to do because I am beyond tired of him doing that