its getting to that point

[african_mama_bear]

Me and the father of kids we just dnt get along the love isn't there he dnt do **** for me or our daughter he isn't involved with this pregnancy but we live together and sleep in the same bed it's so hard cause I just wanna move out so bad and cut him off for good but I can't especially with baby due soon but I do plan on doing so after getting another job if I have to in order to afford it we still haven't picked a name I keep saying all these names he keeps saying no I'm starting to think he is saying no because he don't care so I came up with a name I didn't tell him cause that's what it's going to be and I kinda hope my water breaks while I'm not in the house so I wnt have to tell him cause I dnt want him in the room at all with my first he ain't do nothing his mom was rubbing my back told him to do it he ain't do it he was more focused on stressing me out even though I told him stop trying to argue with me I'm in pain he didn't care at all didn't hold my hands didn't do anything but sit there looking dumb so I see no point in him being there but I dnt want to tell him a d have to argue about it I wanna do it the sneaky way I know that's bad but my whole pregnancy has been stressful with the fights and stuff I'm just tired and dnt wanna deal with it so towards the end of my pregnancy I'm going to be out as much as possible or at his mom's house and he knows when I'm in pain I throw my phone to the side and let it die so he knows I wnt be answering and that's fine with me so that is my birth plan to be alone

[african_mama_bear]

Thank you guys and your mom is right he sure ain't no father he just a sperm donor that's my roommate and yea he dnt like hearing the truth he makes it an argument then makes it seem like it's my fault and I like to fight and blah blah so it's best I just do it

[niesha91]

I went through the same exact thing during my whole pregnancy i felt like i was totally on my own it was so stressful nd depressing...the only thing you can do thats best for you to keep taking care of you nd baby...hopefully he'll come to getting his act together...like my mom told all men can make babies but not all men are meant to be fathers...good luck on everything girl

[Merylov]

U don't need negative energy around u. His the one missing out on a lot of things. U could request to tell nurses and doctors u don't want him in the room if it's that bad, but if I was u I would  sit down and tell him the truth that u don't want negative energy, u want a pleasant memorable memory. Nothing better then the truth.