Feeling horrible...

[ohnicoleee]

I feel like such a horrible girlfriend. Last night I just got to my boyfriends house, it was already late and I was beyond tired and aggravated. We go to lay down and I go to do my normal thing, grab his xbox controller and turn on Netflix, but there's no controller. So I asked him where it was and he told me he got rid of his xbox and that I'd have to watch regular tv. Okay so, 1. He has basic cable so there's nothing good to watch and 2. Commercials are so stupid and annoying. Lol. But any ways I got SO mad at him I called him selfish and an ******* meanwhile he's just sitting there laughing at me, telling me that I'm spoiled and it's HIS xbox and he can do what he wants and blah blah blah. I know I was wrong for getting mad. I can't help my hormones right now. But it pissed me off that he began to play the whole HIS thing. I asked him to move over because he had the whole bed and he told me no cause it's HIS bed. I ended up sleeping on the floor because I had no room on his bed... We are suppose to be moving in together next month but I'm not playing that HIS and MINE crap. Were about to be a family nothing's separate anymore especially if we live together. What would you ladies do?

[specialmom]

BTW, I do understand that you'd like to feel more of a team and closer to this guy.  It definitely sounds like he isn't there yet.  I'm not sure what you should do about that but you guys need to be on the same island rather than both of you (you included with different expectations than him) need to be a team.  good luck

[specialmom]

Welp, sounds like a relationship of two people on separate islands.  I can imagine being a little upset if someone got rid of community property but if it was his, he's a right to do with it as he pleases.  It's at HIS house, right?  

You two aren't living together as a couple.  

I don't think basic cable is worth pitching a fit over sweetie.  and be very careful of using hormones as an excuse for blowing up over little things.  

Frankly, a man who gets rid of his x box . . .   heck yeah.  I hate those gaming systems.  And perhaps he can't afford Netflix or better cable.  Since you aren't paying his bills and it was his place, I'm not sure it was appropriate to throw a fit.

It seems like you two have a lot of talking to do before I'd consider moving in together.  good luck