How to know if my husband is cheating?

[brsndta04]

God it makes me so sad to even be typing this out. I love my husband.  He's not a perfect guy and sometimes I get frustrated but I wouldn't want anyone else. In the very beginning of our relationship I felt he was a little too flirty with another woman. We talked about it and he stopped talking to her. Lately he texts her again.  He takes the dog out on all kinds of walks he never did before. His face is always in his phone. He's lying to me about talking to this girl. He just comes off as extra secretive. It's really been upsetting me. I've talked to him about it and he always assures me I'm the only one for him. But I feel like I'm being lied too. And I try not to think about it.  I mean we just got married.  I'm 16 weeks along with our first baby. We just bought our first house.  I'm trying to pull a life together vita this man. And I don't think he had ever cheated on me before. But maybe I'm just giving him to much credit?  Idk.

It doesn't matter what he tells me I still feel like it's a lie and it hurts.

Please how do I know if I'm valid or if I'm just paranoid

[brsndta04]

Thanks everyone.  I've been trying to calm myself down. I have bad anxiety so I know pregnancy could just be making me more paranoid. I have never so much as even suspected him of cheating before. So I think I'm just hormonal. But I'm definitely going to keep paying attention since my gut is just so convinced

[keaanddan03]

Next time he wants to go on a dog walk go with him. Tell him you want to start walking more with him. If he acts weird about it than that may be a red flag.

[Sass508]

Something doesn't seem right. I'm just not sure what the best approach is?

[Secondtimemomma]

Depending on the phone company you have your cell thru you could get online and look at the cell activity.  Then you could see if he texts anyone and deletes them if they are on the activity log but not on his phone. My ex cheated all the time and my husband poor thing had to deal with my insecurity and i checked his because i was scared it would happen again. Ten years later and i haven't checked in eight. I hope you are just being paranoid. Best of luck!!

[Danni15]

Its true what's done in the dark will come to light. Don't stress yourself out trying to monitor his every foot step. Stay humble and focuse on baby and u. Love him until something reveals itself telling u not to. ...I hope its not the case. Keep your head up and good luck

[Ekaubong]

Take your hussby to the Lord in prayer if you are sure , and the Lord will give you perfect peace especially at this time.

[babymomma101]

I'm pregnant with my fourth, and I've noticed a pattern in my own behavior. Every time I get pregnant I feel insecure and like my husband is cheating or looking at other women. But in reality it's all in my head. He always has his face in his phone too, but the important thing is that he's open with me. Any time I question him, he has no problem giving me all details that I need to ease my mind. I'm not saying he couldn't be lying, just give him the benefit of the doubt and don't stress yourself. What's done in the dark will always come to light. If he is cheating you will find out..worry about it then. But for now, love him and take care of yourself.

[LynneFrances]

Wht kind of phone does he have ?? I went threw the same thing with my husband

[brsndta04]

He has a lock but he has always given me the password.  And I did look. But I think he's deleting messages because he will be texting all day but then there's no new ones

[LynneFrances]

Dose he have a lock on his phone?  If so does he let you in it ? Does he delete his messages ?

[LynneFrances]

Dose he have a lock on his phone?  If so does he let you in it ? Does he delete his messages ?

[brsndta04]

I just feel it in my gut