Aa
selfish boyfriend!
First of all I'm 11 days from my dd I may be getting induced tomorrow if my baby is still measuring small. He has to work which is b.s. and while he's at work he doesn't call and check on me he takes my only vehicle to work! He never answers his phone! He wants me to wait until Friday to be induced. I'm already having contractions so I don't even think the baby will wait that long and if he needs to come out its not up to him!! I'm so miserable this whole pregnancy throwing up daily and have sever panic/anxiety attacks daily! I want him out I'm so tired of all of this! And when he gets home he always has something to say like today I did laundry and forgot to wash 2 towels that were in another room and he starts yelling about it! I always tell him I can't wait to have this baby and leave like I'm so tired of this! What do I do? I just wanna cry. Now if I get induced tomorrow I'm completely on my own as I have no family here I moved to this state for him but Prince charming turned into a total selfish piece of controlling s##t
Hang in there .. don't give up.. once your LO is born everything will be diferente and you will know what is best for the two of you..
:( it's just to much right now
On that hand.. take full control of your things... draw the line and don't let him try to put you down.. you will be able to find a ride, or just take the keys to the truck. . If he says something about them..just tell him right off. .that u out but that truck and legally it's your's. and if he tries to take it that you will call the police. . Just to see he's reaction. . But at the end it's your decision if you really call them or not..
He don't listen to me. He told me to call his mom for a ride to my appointment in the morning because he needs the truck! I bought that truck cash nice big lifted truck only drove it once! He's so controlling and crazy he's only doing this because he thinks I won't actually be able to get a ride there for I can't be induced! I'm so screwed. I should have listened to my brother when he told me don't do it I think he's crazy lol! Man I hate this!
You need to set some boundaries. If he wants to be an ******* tell him to find another ride to work because it is your only car. And he can't control when you have to be induced unless he's your doctor. The stress is not healthy for your baby. And its okay to cry.
Thank u msale
I've talked to him he's just so selfish it makes me feel worse! And when he talks about our baby it's about him ruining his couches or not having to change his diapers. And not dressing him or putting up baby gates so he can't get out of his room?? Wtf who acts like that I feel sorry for my child having that as a father! I know I need to leave him I just don't want to do it right now while I'm still pregnant. Its very sad he was so loving before I got prego. But all the warning signs were their I guess I just looked passed them because I thought he loved me. Truth is he only loves himself.
Sorry to hear that hun... I'm also alone in another state just with my boyfriend. . At the beginning of my pregnancy he was similar to your boyfriend. . I would just talk to him the next day.. just explain to him how you feel. . Hopefully everything turns out good. .. best wishes
Sorry so long theirs so much to say but just giving an idea about how ****** my life has been!
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