Finally calling it quits!

[Jazminnewmommy]

Ok. For some reason it's just not my night. Anyway I'm finally calling it quits with my son's dad. First thing tomorrow I'm changing my phone number,and he's been blocked on every social network. I'm really fed up with him and his excuses. He hasn't done anything for my son besides brought him some bath stuff. Whoopty doo that's what ur suppose to do as his father u dnt get an award for that because since the beginning of my pregnancy I've been doing things by myself. And when he did get those things he said let me keep the receipt just incase I act wild. (New York word arguing or coming at someone). That rite there made me feel like he just wasn't genuine about getting those little things for my son. NOW TONIGHT took the cake,first off every time I have a doctor's appointment or we need to go shopping for the Baby he misses out because he always comes up with an excuse. Thursday he promised me a 3D ultrasound I mean that's the least he can do. He canceled it last week now this Thursday he's canceling it again. Now that's not y I'm changing my number and done with him for good. Tonight I was expressing myself to him on the phone and literally anything I say to him he repeats to who ever he was with in the car. He was showing his *** basically. So I really was not feeling that because I hate when he puts outsiders in our business and it's mainly females. So I got on him about it and he really lied to me over the phone as if I'm an idiot. So we started arguing and I told him I don't want to talk to him anymore he flips out n start throwing threats. Now mind u these r the she threats he sent me when I told him I was pregnant. He hopes my baby dies,he's gonna beat the **** out of me, he's getting his cousins the jump me while I'm pregnant. Now I'm angry at myself because I have too much hope thinking things will change and get better so from the first time we haven't spoke for a while after that then we did and I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt. Now he's back at it again. My son will b here in two months and every time I think about those words I get violently angry. It hurts because ofcourse I want my son to know his father but I can't have that around my baby that I already love. So I'm going to let god deal with him but tomorrow I'm starting fresh. This is my start to being the strong woman I need to b. There's always going to b a guy that will come into my life and genuinely accept me and my son. But until then I will b being a single mother n do my best.

[bjm_1125]

I wish I had the guts to do that. Good for you. You'll be happier in the long run.

[Charis30]

Yeah...you might need to distance yourself away from him. He running his mouth way to much. You and your baby do not need that. If you feel you and your baby are in danger please contact the police. Im praying for you and your little one.

[mommy11b2016]

My son will be here in 10 days seems like he will be coming before that me and my baby father can't get along these last couple of days he just makes me so mad he don't wanna listen to they way I feel and talks to me any type of way I don't care I just can't wait to see my baby that's all I care about don't stress it's not good for the baby everything will work out on its own time

[chochoc chochoc]

I went through the same thing. When i 1st told my sons dad i was preg, he was excited. But later that night/week everything changed. I blocked him from everything til i was 6 months. I only unblocked him because he seen my friend and told her he wanted to talk to me. Then a couple weeks later some chick was inboxing me on fb saying she was his fiancé. I just blocked her and i told him if he denying my baby i will block him again. Don't let that stress you huni!! Gotta make sure you take care of you and the little 1!!! Good luck!

[nese0919]

I hope everything turns out great for you. You and your son deserve better and the best and you don't need his negativity in or around you and the baby. One thing I love about my husband is he's very supportive, and at this point that's what you need, support from him and if he can't grow up and be a man and accept that he'll be a dad and respect you as his baby's mom then you're better off. Good luck and wish you the best ❤️