Is it okay for me to feel this way?

[kellygirl2016]

I'm 21 and my fiance is 22. This is our first child and I'm due in 3 days. It's one of his friend's birthdays today and he made plans to go hang out with her after he gets off work. He ran into another friend and made plans with him for tomorrow night to hang out. Is it okay that I'm upset or should I let him have his time with friends before the baby is here? I'm just worried he's going to get drinks and not answer the phone when I need him to take me to the hospital or be drunk during labor/birth. What do I even say to him?

[StrawberryYari]

I would be very upset if my boyfriend did that to me, I get how you feel. Since you're going to be due soon he should be with you 24/7. You should just be straight up and tell him how you feel.

[sgulia1987]

It would bother me too. I told my husband he shouldn't drink for the last three weeks of my pregnancy in case I went into labor (which he did anyway), considering what you've been doing for the past 9 months I don't think that's too much to ask.

[thompsona0815]

I'd sit down with him and just tell him how you feel, honestly. I would be very upset with my husband if he did that. These last few days might be hard and you might even go over your due date so do bring that up so he doesn't get upset if baby doesn't come on due date. But this is your last few days together without a baby. You need comfort. At least I know I would.