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Is the way I feel wrong? Or I just don't love my partner no more?

I am 8 months pregnant, and I know my husband watches porn, the first time I found out was on his phone history. I toke his phone because mine was dead I was going to type something and porn is the first thing came up. The first time I found out I was feeling desperate I though I wasn't good enough and I wasn't pleasing him. I got depressed and I even start serching up diferentes sex techniques I can do to please him, I am very sexually active. I'm even horny all the time, I'm always there for him. Sometimes I want sex but I don't just because he is tired from work. And as I said I felt like it was my fault for like 5 months I didn't feel attractive at all. My body completely changed. Before pregnant o used to have six-pack, I'm a fitness model, and a boxer as well. I never have problems about my physique I've been always so secure of myself and very strong character. Not so long ago he was in the shower, I came in just to grab some stuff. He was watching porn, I got sad for 5 min, then I got very angry. Now I feel disgusted to him, I don't him the same way. Everything I told him is thank you, now my self stem is coming back up. I said that now I know that "is not that I am not enough for him... He is not enough for me" idk if that was wrong but that's the way I feel. Now I don't feel attracted to him.
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I went through this too. I had the same response and feelings as you. I have some good info and advise if you are interested but I'd rather not share on an open forum so private message me if you want. All I can say is it is very common, you are normal, and you can make it work. Again there is nothing wrong with you. At all
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I think ya'll may need to seek a counselor to help you both with this situation. Feelings shouldn't be considered wrong because it's just the way you feel and you can't really help that but maybe if you both talk to someone, they can help you both better express and understand each other's feelings.
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