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So why df is my boyfriend watching porn in the other room.. While I'm here ?? We haven't had sex n a cuple days but why porn ? Ugh!!!
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If you let a movie about sex make you insecure that's just too bad my hubby refuses to watch it so I'm not in that situation but I know for a fact be for he got with me he watched porn because he has a lot of movies put up lol he's a man that's life nothing to get all jealous of  and like I said being 37 weeks pregnant I can't put it down on him like I use to sometimes I'm in the mood some times I won't be for a whole week and after I have the baby he will have to wIat 6 more weeks till I heal up so it would be dum for me to tell him oh I ain't giving you none my body hurts but your not allowed to watch porn and get off like that neither ? Tf lol he's not a 6 year old he's a grown man ! But like I said my hubby won't even watch porno are materbate soo If I don't really feel like it and he's really horny i might just do some oral to make him happy relationships are all about compromise and understanding
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Men are dumbasses in my opinion. I hate porn I personally have a problem with it and do not agree with it. My husband completely understands and would much rather please me than please himself when we have each other that is what marriage is about. We have been together over 5 years and he hasn't watched porn in over 3 years. Anyone wanna call me neive good luck we have no computer or internet and when he's not at work he's at home spending time with his family playing and reading to our 3 year old son and giving me back rubs and ******* me as much as possible before I have a repeat csection. Yes I have a wonderful husband who loves his family dearly and am very grateful and thankful. Thank you! :-) I love when I get reminded of how wonderful my husband am I must be one of the luckiest girls in the world :-) and im sry to all you women whose men would rather watch fake sex than please you very selfish. If it makes you feel sad, unwanted, lonely, betrayed etc then that is very selfish petty and screwed up of your s/o for making you feel that way. Not fair girls.
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At least he's not going out and doing it with another woman. He's still home with you
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I think many of us go through it!! I found out when I was preggo with my first and it disturbed me so much I was emotional about it, but its just a habit. Believe me they have been doing it way before they met you so its hard to take it away from them. And yes its a quicker release than doing the actual thing, but if it makes you feel better talk to them about it and clear your mind out. You'll rather have your man watch porn than cheating
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I rather have my bf watch porn than go out and cheat on me!!
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Immature *
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If your not having sex with him why complain its better then him cheating on you I don't get. Why girls get mad I incurage my hubby to watch it because I'm 9 months pregnant and have very Lil sex drive but he dosnt like to are he doesn't like to masterbate but if he did I wouldn't get jealous that would be so dum and I mature of me
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My husband doesnt watch porn when I am home and we're almost always home together everyday. I would be angry to be honest I don't have anything against porn I watch it too however I think when you are wanting sex and your man is watching porn instead of pleasing you its wrong and odd that he doesn't want to have sex with you but masturbate instead. Sex feels a lot better to many so I would personally be upset
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My man friend also watches porn. I don't think its a big deal, I'm more than sure ALL mean do whether their lady friends know about it or not. And I think more ladies watch porn than we all think, for some reason we are more secretive about it. But! The way I look at it, I would rather him be watching porn, with fake boobs, fake orgasums, fake girls! Than be going out trying to get the real thing somewhere else! Men need the release of porn. (: its natural.
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A lot of guys watch porn, my hubby included, but I don't mind it at all. My hubby and I are very open and he explains it like this. Sometimes porn is quicker, they don't have to talk or do anything really so its more just for release than anything. Also men like variety. Yes he has you but one night he might be in the mood for Asian girls or something like that. No big deal... Lastly,and probably the biggest one, a lot of guys get weird about sex with a pregnant person. They are worried about hurting the baby or freaked out that they'll feel the baby move.
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My boyfriend hasnt had sex with me in 2 weeks , i know he is watching porn but he keeps lying ... it annoys me so much but i told him , after i have his son we will not be able to have sex as much so he needs to get out of the way for the rest of the pregnancy
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Lol I should try  that
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Omg I been try get my man to stop for over a year now I just don't like the fact you have a women right there so what's the point looking at aother naked girl ? -_-  well almost two years later and he still trys do it behind my back .  So I download naked guys picks into my phone from Google lol he hated it .. oh well :) good luck with yours men are jerks
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Have you tried talking to him about it?
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I ment he
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I knowssss I don't approve of that , but its OK if he way he's it wen im not there IGUESS but when I'm home ?? HellNo!! He doesn't  listen to me though :( he will just hide it. from me
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Tell me about it, I feel the same way. >:/
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Thanks
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.. I think about it this way it's quicker for them to get it out the way then to actually have sex. Talk to him if it bothers you. Tell him that you are more than available for him.
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