Lost

[lola_monroe]

My ex or whatever cheated on me... I forgave him and we moved forward... he kind of moved out but his clothes are still at my house... I found out 2 weeks ago that I'm 4 weeks pregnant. He is very excited but doesn't call or check on me... I have to throw a fit to get his attention and it last for a while then he disappear. This is his first child my second. I have expressed my feelings multiple times... I feel he doesn't care... I feel so alone..

[eagmommy0602]

If he's not happy about creating a life and sharing that with you then he's not worth it. Sorry. My sons father left us for about five months and he turned his life around and came back to me. Now we have a beautiful son and another one on the way and we've been together for a year now. If it's meant to be things will work out. Maybe he'll get straight and want to be a family with you. But if not then you will find someone that will love both of your kids as their own. Don't give up hope

[lola_monroe]

It's hard when you really love them..  my oldest child loves him.. I guess I'll just have to let go ..

[sunshiine809]

Dont feel alone. At the beginning of my pregnancy my dad neglected my baby just because. We've never been close, but I had hoped that my little miracle would change things. Im 30 weeks pregnant and till this day we dont speak. At first I was really depressed, wanting to die, and feeling alone. It was.only when I almost lose my child because of an argument we had that I realized I didn't needed him. My baby needs me, her mom and it's because of her im fighting. I know what it feels like to feel unwanted and unloved, but that baby you are creating is a part of the love you  guys once had. Let him be a dad even tho it doesn't workout between you two. And try talking to him, but dont beg him. You deserve someone better. Someone who's going to love you for you.