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Men are complicated....

Why is that when we start treating them the way they treat us it's all of a sudden a big deal? Lately my husband has been a jerk ignoring me, not talking to me, no sex... Nothing! It's like we're just roommates. I eventually got tired of it and starting ingnoring him the way he does me. And now he's upset and doesn't know why I don't want him around me! Men are so clueless...
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13167 tn?1327197724
In my experience,  men are extremely uncomplicated.  You pick one who is a good man - has a job,  acts normal,  has nice friends,  has a car, has a place to live outside of his parents house - and you treat him with respect and admiration,  and it's all good.  Men are very easy to predict.  
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Respect is earned not given. It doesn't matter what a man has if he doesn't respect you then you don't respect him. That's the way I was raised anyway. We have have everything of our own. Nothing is just his or mine we work together for everything we have.
13167 tn?1327197724
Well,  that's not the way I was raised.

I was raised that you don't move in with a man and create a baby if you don't respect him.   If your guy still has to "earn" your respect,  you picked the wrong guy.
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