My MIL is trying to force her way into my first ultrasound. She's literally trying to leave work the day of my appointment so she can come. I want this pregnancy to be a private one, because she was there for everything with my first baby. She's already ran out and told everyone I was pregnant, though I asked her not to and is already starting that "it's a girl, by the way." "It's definitely a girl." Like she did with my first, which was a boy. I don't know how to tell her to back off. Seriously, I'm getting very bothered. Help