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What to do...

So I'm 8 months pregnant and I been alone my whole pregnancy. For 6 months no friends to talk with and the father of my child left me when I found out I was pregnant.  So just basically in my own fortress of solitude.  Well my ex and I finally struck a conversation after 6 months.   He is still not happy about the baby but is showing interest. So thats a start i guess. But now he has a new girlfriend that he has been dating for three months.For three years we dated broke up for me keeping the baby and three months after our break up he is dating. I don't know now that we are talking back if we would ever get back together or not. How can I be able to move on with a baby? Do I just continue to leave him alone or continue to hope and see where things go?
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I went through a similar situation with my ex boyfriend. We ended up back together but I broke up with him two years later because the new girlfriend he met while we was separated came back into the picture and he began cheating. But If u love him, take it slow but I would see where things could go. You never no, he may fall in love with the new baby and become daddy.! Good luck!
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If he hasnt been there for you*
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Ohh I'm sorry... that must really hurt that he is dating while you are bearing his child. If he doesn't value and appreciate you then I would definitely start letting go of that relationship and move on because someone is going to love you and your baby much more.... you deserve it. If he isn't there for you now when you are so vulnerable and going thru such a life changing experience  that is also so exciting and amazing, then he doesn't deserve you or the baby in his life.
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