No good dad

[Cindy0624]

how do all the single moms or soon to be go their days without thinkin bout the father of ur child who left u to do dis alone. I cant stop thinkin bout it , it makes me so angry n hurts so bad not for me but for my child. How can he not even call to make sure if everythin still goin ok ? Like i have had so many appointments n he doesnt even care to call.

[Kaylawigley]

Hey there :) first off Chin up girly! You're not alone. I went through this on and off with my first pregnancy. I was 16 and had a very rocky relationship but my main focus was my baby boy! That is what kept me going and motivated to do it on my own and raise a MAN so that he wouldn't punk out a girl like the sperm donor did me! I was blessed to find someone when my son was 9 months old and we've been together for 5 years. I'm 22 now, my son will be 6 in march, and we're pregnant with baby # 2! Thing is u can't dwell on the fact he missing out. It hurts oh trust me the anger, resentment, and hatred it all hurts! But when you're baby comes and u look into those eyes u tell ur self u got this, and it may be hard but ur gonna do it! If he doesn't want to be there and wants to be a little boy and run that's fine because you're a woman and are strong and can take care of your baby! Keep ur head high, don't let his absence interfere with the joy your baby will bring, ensure u have a job and all the other good stuff, and u will be just fine. Plenty of kids grow up without a father in their lives but as long as there is a strong mamma that can play both roles that's all they need! Who knows, you can find someone like I did later on when the time is right and that's who my son calls daddy he's never met his sperm donor! It'll all play out sweetie it's hard to see it now but trust and believe it will! You're in my thoughts and prayers! ♡♡♡

[Kaylawigley]

Hey there :) first off Chin up girly! You're not alone. I went through this on and off with my first pregnancy. I was 16 and had a very rocky relationship but my main focus was my baby boy! That is what kept me going and motivated to do it on my own and raise a MAN so that he wouldn't punk out a girl like the sperm donor did me! I was blessed to find someone when my son was 9 months old and we've been together for 5 years. I'm 22 now, my son will be 6 in march, and we're pregnant with baby # 2! Thing is u can't dwell on the fact he missing out. It hurts oh trust me the anger, resentment, and hatred it all hurts! But when you're baby comes and u look into those eyes u tell ur self u got this, and it may be hard but ur gonna do it! If he doesn't want to be there and wants to be a little boy and run that's fine because you're a woman and are strong and can take care of your baby! Keep ur head high, don't let his absence interfere with the joy your baby will bring, ensure u have a job and all the other good stuff, and u will be just fine. Plenty of kids grow up without a father in their lives but as long as there is a strong mamma that can play both roles that's all they need! Who knows, you can find someone like I did later on when the time is right and that's who my son calls daddy he's never met his sperm donor! It'll all play out sweetie it's hard to see it now but trust and believe it will! You're in my thoughts and prayers! ♡♡♡

[derbymomma123]

same boat momma /: 19 will be 20 in march due in April. it's scary but im thankful to have a loving boyfriend. but you never know if they will stick around after the baby is here . but the baby dady .. i see as a sperm donor, he dont call text nothing.