big fight with my man idk what to do

[momy2be1215]

MY hubby came home tonight drunk throwing up and very upset picking fights with me ..  He got in a big fight with his big brother and come home like a monster never seen him that way and he's never talked to me that way EVER his bday is tomorrow/today but after that outburst I'm really not giving a flying fuckkk about his bday he will be lucky to get a good morning are a happy bday from me I'm due in about a week well two weeks but I'll be getting induced at 39 weeks I'm 37+5 and he has to turn himself into jail for two months in January I'm just thinking about taken my son and finishing up a career and doing me I love him so much crazy how one night can change so much I never in a million years thought he'd talk to me the one person who treats him like a king that way I slapped the shittt out of him 3 times ... My mom been telling me he's going thru it because he has to leave and go to jail but that's not my fault I just feel like he's taken his anger out on the rong person now we sleeping in seperate rooms tonight I don't even want him around are in my presence I'm really thinking about packing all my shitt and leaving his asss

[Samnoor]

At least he's aware and he did apologise. We can make mistakes try mend it and focus of your precious baby which both you will share very soon. I hope he don't hurt your feeling again

[LilyRay]

Mine gets that way when he drinks white liquor. I tell him he can drink as long as it's just beer. We have been fine ever since. We have our spats but all relationships do. Nothing as bad as they use to be when he would get drunk off liquor.

[momy2be1215]

He apologize like 30 times and keeps crying after I told him all the hurtful **** he did to me he said he doesn't even remember and he admitted he's stressed out and I don't deserve that I just been crying and he feels very bad because I told him I was scared of him he said I never want u to fear me . . he had brown liquor and he never drinks that so it kind of explain him throwing up but still doesn't make it ok I'm still really mad but its his bday so I'm going to just make his day nice and just let it go but he can never treat me that way again

[KatFirsttimemum]

I haven't been in this situation so I can't give you any advice :/ but! I really hope things get better for you, and you two figure things out. Keep your head up, good luck!

[Samnoor]

I'm going through something similar. I don't understand we have our own problems being pregnant should be a time of happiness and this is the things they get up to. I know they shouldn't be acting like this but guys are like babies, they can't deal with stress. My husband for himself trouble to with the police but he has to pay a fine  believe me he's been inside to many times not whilst with me but before thanks to me I kept him away from jail.  He's come home drunk and I get so angry it's like hello I'm carrying your baby and your going out drinking seriously!!!! I feel to do the same just running away with my baby and never see him but I love him a lot god help us .