Sad!!!

[Rudy1994]

My boyfriend of 2 years just told me hes inlove with me but not happy with me im not heart broken im just sad bout it idk if i should try to make it work... i dont know if i want to eaither...im scared if i tell him i dont wanna make it work he wont be here for his son or worst try to take him from me

[specialmom]

Rats.  Sorry to hear this.  You know, you have options for how you look at this.  If my husband, whom I've made a vow to, a family with, and want to be with forever said he wasn't happy but loved me . . .   I would say "okay.  How can we get on track so we are both happy?  What do you see as our problems".  And I'd work on it.  Sincerely.  Not give up who I am but I'm big enough to look at my own faults and improve upon myself. And if my husband is saying he wants to be happy, he is acknowledging that there is work to do and will hopefully also make an effort toward our having a good relationship.

So, I'm not sure why you go immediately to it being over.  Why not try to see if things can be improved?  Especially since you are having a child with him.  good luck

[Rudy1994]

Im just worried bout my child not him

[Taili2010]

Unless Ur an unfit mother He can't Just take him from u. And If He decides to not be involved with him It's his loss. Not urs Or Ur sons! My baby's father doesn't do Nothing For mine, and only sees my daughter once every couple months. Doesn't call to check on her ever Or buy her stuff. He's like basically invisible most The time. She's 4 and sees how things are For herself and She shrugs It off like She knows mommy got her and She knows mommy's fiance got her So whenever She sees her dad She doesn't make a big deal out of It. She doesn't get excited Or Nothing She's more like Oh great u again. And That Is HIS LOSS. not hers Or mine. But If He's The one Who told u That Then What can You do? You deserve to be happy too hun. Maybe Just Tell him u think u should take a break and get your guys heads right. Pregnancy does change things For people with All those hormones and stuff. So Maybe right now He's Just confused Because things with The two of u are a little different

[cruiz2]

I'm so sorry to hear that hun =/. I would ask him why he isn't happy, if it's something that can't be fixed then I would just part ways. There is no point to being with someone unhappily, it wouldn't be good for you or your child. And as far as your child goes,  if your bf has any interest in seeing his son then nothing you say could phase him. Just keep your chin up and let God handle your situation. Maybe ya'll need some time apart to reassess your relationship. Best of luck to you! I will be praying for you