Anyone else have relationship issues?

[yuna86]

I am 29 and have been with my partner for 13 years. We have four children and I am 16 week pregnant with number 5. My partner doesnt want to be with me anymore as he thinks we dont have enough sex. Im so so tired for godsake...is anyone else having this problem???

[MarriedMommyOf2]

That is horrible if he would destroy 6 people's lives over sex. :( I'm so sorry.

[ChristyIrons06]

I agree, I feel like I'm neglecting my husband but he understands he doesn't argue with me about it.

[10Angels]

Well 5 kids....you obviously have enough sex to have made 5!! Your husband is coming across as a self centered selfish man who only thinks about his own needs and no support for you. You should try and talk to him because it would be sad to break up a family...just over sex. I feel sorry for your situation and I hope you work this out for your sake. I've been with my husband for 19 years now and we are on number 4 and when you have a small baby that wakes for night time feeds of course you don't get enough couple time and im very fortunate that he is very supportive of this fact and knows these are the hurdles parents go through. Your hubby needs to learn to be a bit more compassionate towards you and a lot more understanding. Good luck there.

[zareenawifey]

And being 11 weeks pregnant I still have morning sickness and just don't feel in the mood. I wish someone would explain it to our husband's!

[zareenawifey]

I'm the same. I'm always so tired. My son is 16 months old and is growing molars so wakes up at least twice a night. And I am just exhausted!

[yuna86]

Iv tried explaining this to him :( its not even just the sex that is an issue, it us the times he wants it to happen, he woke me up this wkend at 4am in the morning after coming home from a night out, I didnt really want to as my baby wakes up at 7am but I couldnt be bothered with the arguing, by time hed finished my baby had been woke up and I was exausted the whole day as id had no sleep, but he stayed in bed. Iv tried explaining that if he was to help me more and take some of the strain off me id have more energy. I do everything, night feeds, nappy changes, get up feed and dress my four children, clean, cook and by the time my work is done I just want to go bed :(

[ChristyIrons06]

I'm 29, and almost 28 weeks me and my husband have 3 boys and pregnant with our first grl  been together for 10 yrs and as of right now we haven't had sex in at least a month. I'm tired, weak always not feeling good. It's not your fault it's your hormones.