Stressed to the max

[maymay0014]

Im married into the military & I will admit I cheated & I ended up being pregnant. I know its wrong I know ! military life isnt easy but I have so much hate in my heart in what I did .but please dont judge thus I have learned by mistake . but what do I do with about all the stress I know its not good for my baby , but I have so many people talkin about me .

[march2015babyboy]

@ljoelle one thing i think you need to keep in mind is that the whole point of this community is for support. If you want to put people down and discourage them go on facebook that is what that is for this isn't the place. Yes she made a mistake but you dont know her story or her life. Its not like i agree with cheating but i do agree with mistakes happening. You dont need to be so rude. @maymay0014 dont let people like her discourage you, its about you and your baby now you need to focus on sorry to say this but f*** everyone else you have more important things to worry about!

[LJoelle]

1. You dont marry into the military. You marry someone in the military.. 2 military life is hard?  Yes, for the service member. Bc you my dear aren't in the military.. 3. You shouldnt have cheated. Cant handled being married?  Get a divorce. Wanna bang other people?  Get a divorce FIRST...4. People are going to talk. It was ****** up. And now its public.. if u wanted a quiet private life stay with one guy.. and 5... you ended up on "**** My LPO said" online.. and it wasn't even me... lesson of the day.. dont be a ***** and post about it online!! ;) G'night.

[maymay0014]

thanks yall are really helping !

[soontobemommy_2015]

Focus on ur baby right now. I admit u made a huge mistake, but i have no right to judge you. People talk regardless, the world is full of gossip. But as long as u truly repent in ur heart, u should not care about a single person's comment. But please, always put ur baby first and do not commit such a mistake again because in the long run it will only hurt u. Best of luck :)

[whit1002]

Mistakes happen...we learn from it and move forward..Girllll I've got a story too and it took me a while to forgive myself but sometimes God turn the bad for your good...forgive yourself and move forward.praying for you

[maymay0014]

Thankyou so much.

[march2015babyboy]

You can't worry about other people as soon as you become pregnant your whole world becomes that precious little baby. You can't erase what happend and honestly there is a reason for that little person to be coming into this world. Dont be discouraged you just be the best damn mommy you can be!

[JamieNVance]

All you can do is learn techniques to cope with stress. Other than that there's nothing you can do.

[sa_mom]

People are going to talk.  There isn't anything you can do about it.  You may need to leave the post to get away from it.