Ugh....another rant

[2cherubsntwingirls]

So apparently I am a nightmare to be around. My husband told me that today BC I said I was lonely and felt unimportant. He has been off work this week and played video games more than talk or hang out with me. I have 4 days until my c-section and am pregnant with twins. I am miserable and in pain all the time. I have a 5yr old and 2yr old and am the one taking care of them, the house, and meals. I also caught a cold. I told him I was sick and he just rolled his eyes. His brother brought his kids over last weekend and they were sick and gave it to me and he thinks I am just being dramatic. He got pissed last night because I made homemade chicken noodle soup to help make me feel better since he didn't want that and then again BC I didn't dish him up some. Then he got mad BC I commented that I was unhappy he was going to play video games rather than watch TV with me. He was been playing over 10 hours a day since he has been off to "help" me. I am just so over him being an a hole......I have no family here or friends otherwise I would leave.

[RockRose]

I don't know how long you've been living in your current location,  but with a 5 year old and 2 year old, in my experience you should have friends crawling out your ears.  

Maybe you've just been there for a few weeks,  and haven't met other mothers.    In my experience,  my friends who also had preschoolers are the best friends I've ever had,  and still have.

Reach out to other moms.

Best wishes.

[specialmom]

Ugh, you have a 5 year old  AND a 2 year old and you are 4 DAYS away from a c section and he has time off work and plays video games???   Oh no no  no no.  I' unplug the freaking gaming system.  I'd let him know that he will do X, Y and Z during his time off.  He's going to take the kids to the gym or somewhere that is an outing and he's going to let you rest.  

I would set the pace for what he does and grown men don't ignore their FAMILY to play games.  11 year olds do that.  I get that he may use it to unwind and if he played for say an hour. . .   okay.  But no.  Not all day.  Not half a day.  That's not healthy for anyone to either play video games or watch tv that much!!  
good luck!

[koyama83]

You should just do your own thing like cookie monster said. He might turn it around on you though. Sounds like he's a crazy *** hole, like mine. I'll be your roommate lol I'm ready to leave too... Losers

[XxCookieMonsterxX]

If he doesn't want to hang out with you than stop hanging out with him. Find a hobby. Treat him how he treats you and semi ignore him

[jannahmre06]

Wow so sorry to hear that! :( just remember you have your children to be thankful for and remain positive! ;) I hope things get better for you soon!