Venting to single moms

[SeulBi]

Hey everyone I just need to vent a little. Well I'm 9 weeks and 4 days pregnant now and I told my ex boyfriend about it but we were dating when I told him. I remember calling him on the phone crying mostly because I was shocked and I was scared about what he'd say. And he hung up the phone. Lol. But then called me back and stayed quiet. Then he texted me large paragraphs on how nows not the time that we're still kids (I'm 18 and he's 19) and that in the future we'd have our kid in another country blah blah he basically fed me ********. Sorry for the word. And well he wanted me to kill my baby and I refused. The baby didn't do anything wrong it doesn't deserve to die. And he answered it doesn't deserve to live a life we can't give it either. And that made me so angry because he doesn't know the future. Anything can happen. Anyways he later said he supported my decision but then I noticed he slowly stopped talking to me and paying attention to me. And then before I knew it we were broken up. But he asked me to not tell anyone we both know that I'm pregnant with his baby. And he said that he's my best friend and that he loves me to always remember that. But a few weeks after one of my friends asked him what happened between us and he said nothing that he just forgot about me  and that he was trying to better himself for his ex girlfriend that wants nothing to do with him. I honestly am really heart broken but I know I don't need him in my life. I just wish I would've listened to everyone who told me not to get involved with him. His best friends even told me and that says a lot already.

[SeulBi]

Thank you everyone!

[Roxxxy915]

Agree ^ w. ilovemibabies , theres so many single women parenting your not alone just keep in mind if they did it why cant you? Its not imposible lots of ppl might think your life is over but its barely starting . Being a mom is such a blessing. GoodLuck!!

[ilovemibabies]

Your gona be an amazing mother you already took the first step chosing life over death chosing your baby who needs you over a guy and what he wants! More power to you from one single mom to another let him fade out of your life and enjoy your pregnancy he dosnt deserve to be a part of such a beautiful thing. Keep your stress levels low too :)

[mani3814]

Amen!! You're absolutely right lol

[annaconda96]

Sorry to hear this , but guys don't know how it feels honestly.  My daughters "sperm donor" is a complete ******* he fed me lies . Told me things I wanted to hear when I finally saw through all the bs I broke it off with him why it didn't mean much to him was to find out he was cheating on me for about a week before the girl found out she has told me everything about how he's trying to ruin my reputation telling her he didn't want any part of me or my daughter so less for me to worry about now soon his friends will see he's a stealer and a no good person but anyways ladies keep your heads up just remember there will always be a man out there that will gladly take ******** places

[mani3814]

Um I'm sorry. I'm actually knew to this, and know I don't know you but I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19 as well and tbh if he were to say our do the things he's doing I'd really tell his family and even his ex. Not for me to seek revenge but because I would love my child, wouldn't want him/her to grow up fatherless, and because I didn't make my baby alone. If I were you I wouldn't allow him to get away that easily or forget about your child. It's one thing if he leaves you (no offense) but he shouldn't be allowed to be able to leave his child and also tell him he's not a child anymore. It's time to grow up