low sex drive of your husband?

[Eastons_mommy]

Anyone else experience your husband all of a sudden not want to have sex? Like up till about 3 days ago he had no problems now he just Dont want to? I'm almost 34 weeks I'm already bbw before pregnancy I just have more of a belly now.... Like I feel maybe he has another girl or something it's really messing with me. When I ask him what's wrong he says I'm not horny and Idk what's wrong with me.... He has never ever cheated on me I know that but why now all of a sudden he's not interested? Is he no longer atrracked to me?

[B1128]

I would talk to him. My whole pregnancy we have had sex, and until like... Two weeks ago, we went a week and a half without him even touching me. I feel awful about myself, because I'm just not me. I don't even recognize myself and when he stopped touching me it made everything worse. I just texted him one day and told him how I felt about myself and about him not wanting me, I asked him why, I asked him if he was watching porn at work or if he was on craigslist (he's done it before) looking at others or if he was seeing someone else and just didn't need me anymore for this purpose. He said he was tired. -I felt and still feel there was more to it then this because his hours didn't change and nothing was different, but a couple days after he came around and we have continued to have sex. I don't know what the actual problem was, he never did say. But I took it for what it was, and just knew he knew how I felt and was feeling was enough.

They don't understand, and when they don't express their own feelings, neither do we. But this is such an important time to come together, whether it be sex or something else. We have time to figure out how to now before our babies arrive and when they're here it will be harder. Just talk to him, express to him how you feel and don't expect too much if anything in return right away. I found texting a lot easier because I could truly tell him how I felt.

[Eastons_mommy]

Thank ladies yall make me feel better cause I know in all honesty he hasn't and or never cheat. Just me being hormonal and over thinking the whole situation.

[TifCrem]

I was so insecure when I was pregnant with our first because I took offense to my husband just not wanting to have sex,but now I realize I definitely understand. For him,it was just the thought of a baby in me moving around! It freaks him out! Lol hopefully that's just it with your husband also! Good luck! :)

[Eastons_mommy]

I know he isn't cheating I just know it but it's just something that crosses very female mind when Their SO is less active towards them. This whole pregnancy thing is new to he both of us. It just is messing with my head. I'm probably over thinking it but it's hard not to let your mind wonder in such a situation!

[Eastons_mommy]

I know he isn't cheating I just know it but it's just something that crosses very female mind when Their SO is less active towards them. This whole pregnancy thing is new to he both of us. It just is messing with my head. I'm probably over thinking it but it's hard not to let your mind wonder in such a situation!

[stina_rina]

My husband and I used to have sex everyday! I cant remember last timw now...I think it freaks him out and he says he doesnt wanna hurt baby. Im 36 weeks

[na_mya2015]

My hubby been like this throughout my pregnancy up until I explained to him this is how our daughter was created... he was afraid that he was going to hurt the baby and then slowed down more once we found out we were having a girl... but he left for 1 month for training and came back a new guy...lol haven't been able to keep his hands away...
I say just talk to him and tell him ur feelings and hopefully things work out for u guys...

[mansa87]

It's so hard to determine weather or not u are over thinking things isn't it... It's cruel!

[Eastons_mommy]

We are both also first timers.