Would you be mad or am I overreacting?

[Marissalara]

So I am 8 months pregnant and for the passed week my fiancé has been sooo sick. I have been bending over backwards doing everything to help him I was constantly at his side. Now Today I'm the one who is sick. Today has been terrible, he decided to go out with his friends tonight while I am trapped in bed. I can barely get up without the room spinning and feeling nauseous. Should I be mad that he's not here to care for me like I did for him? Or am I being way too hormonal..., because I am aaaaangry

[raelizgl]

Sounds like he didnt think about the fact that you need caring for too, especially being pregnant. Glad to hear you stayed calm and he came home and felt guilty. I would've freaked out on my hubby. Lol. Your man sounds like a nice guy, just maybe he doesn't think (which is typical of the male gender).

[sheree15]

I would be mad... because if anything his home should come first before any friends. He should be attending to you, his queen and his princess/prince in your belly along with his palace. Soooo I would be mad.

[littleperson96]

I wish my bf would come home if i told him he did something wrong.. i always take care of him when hes puking i bairly leave his side, get him water, lay down with him so hes not alone, when im sick i get "well your pregnant of course your gonna feel like ****" -.-

[m_r_p]

I agree with Geekmom. Glad he came home to you and felt bad. Sounds like a nice guy :)

[mommaDof3]

Be mad....that's so selfish of him.

[laur23]

Yea some guys can be ****'s and not care and others don't really realize there being a *** and at least he realized and came home w out any arguments:)

[Marissalara]

Geekmom1213 that is very true and you make a great point, I ended up just texting him and telling him I wish he had stayed home with me and he came home and just kept apologizing and felt really bad about himself. I didn't have to yell or anything it was quite nice :)

[Saralynn143]

Been there, done that. That **** pisses me off.. us women do too much for them.

[GeekMom1213]

I personally think that sure it might have been nice of him to stay home but after feeling sick and miserable for days it probably feels pretty good to get out of the house. And also, I don't really think that sending a dozen pissed off messages to him while he's out will make him feel bad for you and come home to baby you and make it all better. In fact, it will probably do the opposite. I'm not saying you don't have a reason to be frustrated with his choice. I just think maybe the reaction you're considering might not be too helpful to your cause.

[misslashay15]

Hell no! I would be mad as hell. And I would be in the phone right now lighting him up or I'll let him have his,good time and light him up when he gets home.

[Marissalara]

Omg you guys are the best! I'm ready to unleash all hell on him its good to know I'm not overreacting, thank you so much guys

[kays01]

I would be texting him right now abusing the f outta him if he was my man lol you poor thing!

[Hmph16]

Typical man. They want us to baby them when they're sick but forget about us when we are. I would be mad like what the hell plus you're pregnant no no

[kim4_]

He should be babying you , smh let him know wassup lol

[chelbaby901]

I'd be pissed lol

[Kynsmoms]

Yes I would b mad not only are you pregnant u was babying him while he was sick.he should at least return the favor

[Marissalara]

I know! It would be one thing if I wasn't pregnant but since I am it makes me really mad!

[kim4_]

Nope!! Be mad, thats totally not fair especially you being pregnant