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11928313 tn?1437358907

feel like im nothing

Does your partner ignore the hints u throw
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Sweetie, many men will not notice you painted your nails "thier favorite color".....The fact that he does not notice your hair....did you completely change color and style? If not, he is normal not to notice.

Either you are young or, you are in need of some growth to learn to love yourself. When you feel good about you, you don't need to look for compliments.

If he is not a complimentary, attentive guy, and that is something you need and desire, then it is time to move on. You can not and will not change him. To remain with someone who can not give you the emotional support/boost you need will only continue to harm your self esteem. You set yourself up for disappointment, and to never feel good enough.

Many of us girls fall for guys who aren't able to be as attentive as we like....then blame them.

Get single, and next time a guy likes you for you, try dating him! Dating a nice guy is so much better than trying to chase and change a jerk....and you can waste years doing it, and break down yourself esteem.

Once you live yourselves and value yourself, you will only date the "nice guy"

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Try and do something that you have never done before try something different and just wait and see if he notices anything different about you.
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11928313 tn?1437358907
I mean like when I get hair and nails done his favorite color he just ignores it
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If you love him, don't play games. Be honest and open. You don't need hints for a great relationship, you need trust.
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Texting typos!
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No! My partner does not ignore the "hints I throw"....but I have found that when I "throw hints" verse clearly communicating my needs, he is not very good at trying to read my mind.

Being surrounded by men in a male prevalent career for 20 years I should add that MOST MEN are not goid at trying to interpet ir figure out the "hints women throw"

Most men do better with direct communication.

You cannot change your man but you do have the power to change how you choise to communicate with him.

This is a goid time to read up on how women and men communicate differently. Once you better understand how to speak to him, you will be happier.

The 1990's popular book "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" is a easy read that can help you learn how to communicate with your man, and any man, more effectively.

Hope this helps!
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I don't throw hints, if you want something you might as well say it otherwise they may not understand and you will be disappointed.
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