feeling sad have no support =(

[xxtashaleexx]

Hi so im 26wks and have no friends and family lives a few hrs away (but they still are not really support to me anyway) i just dont know what to do anymore i have no one to talk to about anything and havent for a few years. I feel so alone, depressed and unhappy i tell myself everyday i will be fine who needs friends anyway but i do need that one friend that i can talk to and that friend thats always there for you. How can i overcome this? Im so sad i cry all the time and no this isnt just hormones it was like this before i was pregnant. Im just at the end and feel like im going to be friendless forever. But honestly i know ppl just haven't became friends. Maybe im trying to hard  because ppl tend to call me for something or to ask me something not to hang out or to talk. And i will do just about anything for most ppl i feel like im being used cause they get what they were after and dont talk to me for months? I dont know im asking but not really asking questions just needed to get things off my chest. Sorry for the long story =(

[LoveCake98]

I think you should join the Y or possibly a church or mommy group.  It really helps to have supportive people in your life--and you'll need to trust someone else to watch your child eventually so make meeting people a priority.

[xxtashaleexx]

Thanks ladies for ur support it makes me feel a little better. Maybe im just trying to hard, being to nice? I am quite a shy person im willing to listen and am quite a relaxed person so i dont know why ppl tend to repell from me. But there must be something im doing wrong. I have 2 other children and expecting my 3rd and just wanted to have that friend to talk to and to hang out with ya know. im feeling like i just have to get over it and get on with life its just the lonely feeling really takes over sometimes =( oh and my partner doesnt really understand as he has a few friends. Thanks again ladies

[Nikki4289]

I know exactly how you feel. When I had my son all my "friends" disappeared it's been two years and haven't heard from a single one. It's just me, my son and my bf. I think about what I may have done but I've realized that the people who want to be in my life are. I make r he best of it I'm only 25 I'm in graduate school eventually when I find a job and as my children get older and are in school, I'll probably find mom friends who I can relate to. It just takes time. Remember god always has a plan a for you. ♡ :)

[Danielle_1987]

I agree with both comments. I really hope it doesn't get worse for you.

[schenner2]

I agree with tat! Find a prenatal class or pregnancy fitness class or local moms group and talk to some soon to be moms. Maybe talk to your boyfriend/husband? Mention it to your doctor too.  I dont want to see it get worse for you.  

[tat87]

I am sorry people are taking advantage of you. The first bit of advice I would give us to stop helping! Play hard to get :) then look up a site called meetup, and find groups of people with similar interests to meet new people. If people seem to not want to hang out with you, ask yourself,  do I complain too much? Am I too negative?  Or am I so nice and positive that it might seem fake? People tend to gravitate towards those they feel they can be honest and relaxed around. I hope that helps :)