heartbroken

[nicolerello]

Two nights ago my bf (baby dad) broke up with me bc he wasn't happy any more and didn't love me the same.  I'm due February 22 . I'm so heartbroken depressed.  I don't know what to do I moved in with my mom so now I'm 3 hours away from him. I still love him and always will.  I can't stop crying. It's hard to smile. I just Wana be with him. I have bad separation anxiety so that's not helping.  I'm just lost ...

[nicolerello]

Thank you. I feel what many other single mom's feel I never thought I'd feel this. I'm so used to him going to all my appointments. And now he won't be there. Me and him were so close I felt what he felt he told me he sad things didn't work out. I sadly did beg him before I left to just try with me to make it work and he just couldn't . I hope he realizes I need him as much as he needs me

[specialmom]

I really don't understand these men that think the best time to break up is AFTER they've impregnated their girlfriend.  Geez!  How many single moms are we going to have because of men who don't want to live up to their responsibilities?  

I'm sorry you are hurting.  Bad timing when you are particularly vulnerable.  Do you have family to lean on and to help?  

Make sure you establish paternity and have him pay child support.  For the next 18 years he can not run from responsibility.  good luck

[katieJD_KGW]

I went through the same with my first pregnancy. So instead of still speaking to him I chose to cut him from my life. For over 2 months we didn't speak I didn't let him come to scans or any appointments. Then one day after 2 months I went and saw him we spoke things over had a good chat and cry.. We decided to take things slow. He was there for the labour. And now our son is just over a year old we live together and are expecting our daughter in march. Don't give up hope. Make him miss you. Im not saying cut him out completely as I do regret it now that he wasn't at scans but make contact minimal. He will miss you but you need to give him tkme.. Men take longer for this relationship business than women do. Good luck xxxx

[nicolerello]

That's what in doing I'm praying so hard. I don't wanna be alone. :( I asked him if we ever get back together and he said maybe.  I hope for the best he the only guy I Wana be with.  I'm scared to do this alone

[Logan2015]

We are in the exact same boat. My boyfriend left me and said he wasn't happy nor see us together in the future and I'm due January 17. He moved out and left me here alone with my 2 year old daughter.I still love him and hope one day we can be a family. But until then your child always come first.. And don't stress yourself just pray!

[nicolerello]

I try thinking bout my baby and I just cried more bc I want his father to be in the picture I only have one friend and she busy with college and work full time. I just Wana be with him so bad. He said he still talk to me every day and try to visit me and be there when our son born.  It's my fault he left he said I was disrespectful and whenever we did have a fight which was rarely it was over small stuff. I just don't wanna let go

[babygourdine]

I feel some what of the same way I feel so alone after 7 years you would think you were worth just a little more...

[Pink03]

I know how you feel the best way to get over someone is to just focus on you and your baby have fun, enjoy life,go out, hang with friends,watch funny movies laugh. if he doesn't feel the same way about you why beat yourself up about it it's not your fault that he's a jerk

[nicolerello]

I'm trying it's just so tough I go from living with him and him being my world to nothing I'm alone. I Wana be happy but I was only happy with him

[ShenCurti]

Keep it together hun. Your child needs you to be at a 100% when it's born. You will get through this with or without him. And if he can't see how amazing you are then he doesn't deserve you.