how douchey is your bf/husband?

[Hmph16]

It maKes me sad when I tell my bf "look he's moving touch him" and he'll get annoyed and not touch my belly. Then he gets mad when I ask him to massage my back because it hurts. I wish he was more involved :(

[a7xforlife04]

I hope to god my guy won't be like that. He's a total gamer and I so don't want that. He was already really distant about it at first and wouldn't even really look or touch me. He's a lot better now, but I don't want his stupid games to come first before me or our babg

[cheericee]

My boyfriend does it too. He's just not really sure how to show his emotion, and this is a lot for him to cope with, he's just adjusting to being a Dad. But I can tell he's trying so that's what matters (even though I don't always feel as patient/understanding) I feel your pain, but just remember he does care !

[Hmph16]

Lol yes nerd goddess he'll be watching tv or playing games and be more interested in that. I expect him to be as excited as me and I know he loves our baby i just expected my child's father to act completely different!

[nerdgoddess1991]

As a couple who has been more concerned with our video games than real life- I feel your pain. "Look babe he's moving!" "IM TRYING TO GET THIS ACHIEVEMENT OMG! LEAVE ME ALONE" "Jesus Christ my bad for thinking you'd be excited" cue eye roll. He cares but he just ***** at showing it.

[katiie_]

Ugh my boyfriend's the same! Mmwhen the baby's no kicking he will just look at it and say wow ! But he wount touch it and same when I ask for a back rub he will say he is too tired and sore. He doesn't understand how tiring it is being pregnant

[Emmaa93]

My boyfriend is completely different he always wants to touch my bump and talks to them all the time and he gives me back massages every day, all men are different but. They all care deep down they just show emotions and love differently

[Chelle_1997]

My boyfriend is like that! He always expects me to rub his back but when I ask he is always tired.
And when I tell him to look at our little girl, he will for a split second and then go back to what he was doing (usually gaming). I'm not sure if it's just because we're so young (17) that he's not really interested, but it makes me sad that he doesn't care much. :/

[isabela2]

My husband doesn't like giving me massage I have had back problems all my life so right now everything is worse and when I ask him to massage my feet or back he will say another day cause he is tired but that day never comes!