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[jasmine2366]

I sumtimes dont know what to do my child father told his friends he not going to be in my child's life i don't know what to i just want to cry my child didn't ask to be here i just want to give up i can't do it alone

[BLESSEDwith5tobe]

Sorry to hear this. But yes you can do it alone!! You don't need a man to take care of a baby! If its finacially that you are worried about two words for you CHILD SUPPORT! I don't think anything wrong with adoption but y'all young. What is he saying to you about the baby? If he says the same things to you then let him know how you feel and that you really need him to be apart of his child's life! Let him know you didn't make that baby on your own and you don't intend on taking care of it on your own! If he don't voluntarily help then child support! How do his family feel about you being pregnant maybe they will be more supportive. I don't mean to sound rude but I just feel like no woman should ever feel like they can't do something without a man!! Stay strong for your baby you CAN do this!! Good luck to you!

[ribaby15]

I feel you girl.
Me and my fiancé got pregnant early on in our relationship, but things were perfect.
unfortunately at 16wks I lost the baby. we started trying again right away, he proposed. I couldn't have been happier.
Then finally the beginning of Jan, I'm pregnant again - he's super excited.
And then 6 days later he tells me he wants to work on things with his ex (they have a 2yr old together)
She's guilt tripping him like saying he chose someone else and someone elses kid (because I have a 5yr old) over his own, and that he never gave them a chance, etc.
He says he wants to be there for me, but it's like - I'm still utterly in love with him... so its SO hard :(
This chick lives in Alberta, we live in Ontario. And in the 1yr they were together after his daughter was born, he shipped them off to Alberta (where shes from origincally) 3 TIMES! in a year!
I'm 9wks now and I just am heartbroken. I had an ultrasound yesterday, which he came with me, and it was like he was just there because I asked him...
Now I'm left to deal with a baby we both wanted so badly, alone. While the love of my life is attempting to get with someone he told me he cant stand...

[Nickynicky96]

I went through a similar thing, when I first found out I was pregnant the father of my baby tried to force me to get rid of my baby, and when I told him no, he said he wants no part of it at all. He doesn't want  to be in my life or my baby's life at all. It upset me, I was very stressed out and distraught for a little while after it. But when I think about it, I know there is nothing I want more than to have this beautiful baby of mine. Yes it will be hard to do it alone, but I would rather do it alone than with someone who will not be any kind of physical or emotional support at all. If he's like this now I think it may only get worse, you sound like a wonderful person and if you stop for a moment and think about what is best for your baby then you will see that you don't need someone who is going to treat you and your child that way. Hope it all works out for the best. Keep your head up

[sheree15]

I can feel your pain, my child's father basically said he was going to be there for my baby either. For like 23weeks of my pregnancy I was sad and I cried almost everyday. You can't force someone to be there if they don't want to. It's his lost.  Once you start thinking about your baby , you start feeling the love and joy baby brings to your life. A baby is truly a new beginning to happiness. All that sadness and pain will be compensated with the love you give and receive from your baby.  

[jasmine2366]

I haven't talked to him in months he 18

[Achillesmother0427]

Honestly, if he doesn't want to be there that's his lost not yours or the child's. I know it's going to be tough and i know it hurts but that child is still a gift From God and he didn't deserve to share such a precious gift as this child. Hang in there sweety. God got you and you lil one!!

[maggie_pozos]

Does he treat you like he doesn't want to be with you? Maybe he just does it to look cool. How old are y'all, if you don't mind me asking?