Leave him? Why should you have to put make up on and whatever else to attempt to get a caring response out of him? Screw him. Tell him how you feel about his low life dirty a.s.s when he speaks to you like you are nothing. Do not beg for his attention by getting all dolled up for him. He does not deserve that extra effort as if you aren't already tired and have enough going on without his s.h.i.t. I would straight give in return what he has been giving to you. Don't allow any man to speak to you that way, who the fck is he?!
What a piece of garbage. You worry about you and that baby! Not putting in effort to get his attention, you already have his attention, in all sorts of negative ways and the more you look for his attention the more he will have nothing but s.h.i.t.t.y things to say to you, avoid that, avoid him. And when he speaks down to you, tell him about himself! How he's fkn garbage.
No one deserves to be treated like that, don't settle for that! With or without a baby, there is no reason to accept that behavior. He is being verbally abusive and I can imagine it will only get worse in time as he apparently has no consideration for you after having a baby! If you have somewhere else to go, I would go there! You don't want your son to grow up around that and think that is acceptable. Be strong for yourself and for your son.
Fck that guy.
Thanks ladies that bring me to down i hate the fact how can guys be an *** holes at times , i went tru bad bad Bullying when i was young about 14 or 15 in Module school afther that i lost to much weight because i was depressed how ppl are and too much problems && knkw that i had adorable George baby i gained ah lil and idk lyke he puts meh Down of my self lyke i swear i dont wanna do nothing i wanna cry but try to keep my head up no matter what
He is putting you down because he doesn't feel good about him self. I agree start doing things for yourself. Do it for you not Him. God made us all beautiful inside and out.
I've told my prego she's gorgeous every day as much as a can. I doubt anyone can be ugly from carrying the next generation of the two of you. I'd say get as pretty as u can , dress up make up do ur hair. If he can't make u self feel better do it with out him .
You shouldn't have to tell him that being called fat and ugly hurts you. How old is he..5?!?! That's unacceptable. As your man, he needs to be loving and supportive towards you at all times and choosing his words carefully is apart of that. Get your strength and once you're ready/want to, get to feeling and looking how you feel the most confident
Have you talked to him & told him how you feel? Tell him that bothers you... stay strong hun