cheating childs father

[tauruan92]

While I was having my baby my Bd was cheating with some other girl who works at the hospital I'm so hurt apparently they have been known each other I have seen her on the social sites they dated long before I came I found out and started up again he said they never had sex just talking but too ne it's still the same betrayal all women know talking is just as intimate especially with a ex you apparently never got over I want him out am I over reacting

[tauruan92]

Thanks that's exactly what I needed too hear I know I wasn't over reacting see he wants a serious relationship with him but he only wanted sex is the reason she stopped responding he claimed it been stopped but the damage is done in comparison too my last relationship this is nothing but I decided when I got involved with him I wouldn't be hurt like before again

[specialmom]

It sounds like you've made up your mind.  Do I think you are wrong?  Hm.  Well, in this situation, it sounds like he has a history of lying.  And that your fear is that he cares for/longs for/ wants this ex and enough so to go behind your back.  This would not work for me.  I would not be able to maintain the façade of having a relationship with someone that I felt was doing that behind my back.  It's not like talking to another girl and simply that but that he is pointedly talking to someone he may have feelings for and would perhaps be with if the girl wanted to . . .   that's too much for you to put up with. So, I say NO, you are NOT overreacting.  good luck

[tauruan92]

Bump

[tauruan92]

I am he came home early n acting like nothing is wrong

[valariem214]

Ditch him

[tauruan92]

Thank you and no sex is not from lack of effort on his part I read the msgs he tried she didn't respond too that msg he said she played him n if she would've text back it would've worked he really said that too me

[diachong]

I agree, you don't have to have sex to cheat and whether they had sex or not why was he with her and not with you when you were having the baby? The fact that this chick is coming at you and telling ur bd that she loves him obviously means something more is going on than just talking. I don't think you're overreacting

[tauruan92]

Bump

[tauruan92]

I'm hurt I went too sleep n woke up crying my 2 month old is looking like mommy what's wrong

[tauruan92]

No he has been doing this for a while the more I'm finding out she's the same girl who was writing I love you on his page and trying too argue with me she knows where we stay and her four year olds were supposed to be his but DNA revealed differently he cheated on his girl before with her that's how that happened

[GeekMom1213]

Hang on, he was talking to her, and that's it? I think maybe you should take a deep breath. I talk to a couple of my exes frequently, I've never cheated on my husband. It's not "intimate" to have a friendly conversation with someone you used to be very close with. I'm not seeing what the big deal is.

[tauruan92]

I asked him me same msgs he said he would be gone I can't even look at him with out seeing her and she is not attractive at all ..at all but that's what he wanted he tried too hug me I I could see was her I'm disgusted by him

[tianboo28]

You don't have to have sex to be cheating if he was hiding them talking from you then I'd say good riddens. But that's just me do what you think is right don't let anyone tell you different and being together and being unhappy is no good for the baby.