lost a child

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Hi everyone I am 31 yrs old me and my hubby off 10yrs lost our first child year ago go on 2yrs in april. I am ready have another child now but I think my hubby maybe afraid that we will lose another child the same way our son was full term.The doctors were trying to find a heart beat but couldnt while I was in labor. Lil Greg was born 10lbs 3oz 22.5inches its not a day that goes by I dont think about him.

[bnl0725]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Noone should lose their child. I hope you go on to have a healthy baby.

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I'm sorry about your loss. =(

[Stephie250]

I am so sorry for your loss and I completely understand how you feel. On Jan 2014 I lost my little boy in the exact same circumstances you lost yours, it was the hardest thing I ever had to deal with in my whole life. To get so close and yet so far....we didn't try again, we left it in God's hands. Now I am nearly 5mths pregnant, when I first found out I didn't know how to tell my husband. When I finally got the courage to he seemed to have no reaction whatsoever, for weeks we didn't really talk about it, I went to my 12 week scan with my mom and when I showed him the scan picture he just had a little smile but once again didn't say much. I knew he was thinking of our son Jeremiah and he was still grieving. One morning when I had reached about 15 weeks he leaned over and started to kiss my belly and speak to the baby......men love and grieve differently from us. I know that may be at first your husband will find it hard but with you giving him the time and space to deal with his emotions he will come round. You both deserve the happiness a child brings, no one will replace baby Greg and he will forever be in your heart but you deserve another chance. I hope things work out for you, I am a bit anxious this time round but I trust that it will ve well by God's grace. Wish you all the best xxx