Advice please???

[miracle_mommy2014]

Ok so me and my bf went out to eat with his brother and his gf....we'll my bf is Mexican....we'll my bfs brother girlfriend asked my bf (in Spanish) why he didn't like his own kind(I'm white) and she asked my bf is he had to choose between being with a girl his own kind that was beautiful and a not so pretty white girl who he would choose....he said the white girl. Whatever ok I didn't even know what was going on. Then my bf and his brother got up and walked away then she said me if I was gonna stay with him or break up with him? I didn't tell my boyfriend but I mean idk what to think...

[specialmom]

Ya know, racism comes in all shapes and colors.  She's a racist.  And they deserve no attention.  You know the truth about her.  She, for whatever reason, thinks YOU are expendable and she is permanent.  Well, time will tell on that one but you are having your boyfriend's child.  You keep being sweet to everyone especially his mother.  In fact, I'd try to connect with her.  I'd tell her that you know he enjoys her cooking, for example, can she teach you how to make some authentic dishes?  Be nice to your boyfriend's brother.  Minimize this woman.  She doesn't matter and she's a racist.  Blow off her statement as ignorance.  Rise above.  then you aren't the bad guy, she is.  Your boyfriend said something and stuck up for you and now let it be and move on.  good luck hon

[Brittany_0808]

It kinda sounds like she is jealous

[JESSICA_BBYASHLEY]

Well i hope ur bd does stick up for you and this girl is looney how is she not going to be white if thats half of her shes crazy dont listen to people like that theres always bitter people that cant  see others happy because they have to ruin it be happy for ur bundle of joy and ignore stupid peoe and their remarks im sorry you have to deal with that kind of negativity

[miracle_mommy2014]

His brother isn't gonna care I'm sure it will turn into a big deal and it will be all my fault....none of them ever stick up for me.....me and my baby basically come last. But I don't understand why she would say that I have never done anything to her. Idk wtf her problem is. And she was all saying how she hopes my baby isn't white like Uhhh tf? She's half white ugh idk it's frustrating

[JESSICA_BBYASHLEY]

I think shes a ***** what kind of a question is that of her to ask especially when you are pregnant thats none of her business your boyfriend is with you for a reason so dont take it out on him try to brush of her comments and i hope he text his brother so he can put his gf in place those are not quesgions or things to be saying im mexican and would not question if some one in my family went out with another race

[Zydia]

U aint in the wrong if she doesnt like the reaction she shouldn't have stirred up the drama ... she shouldn't stick her nose where it doesnt belong

[Lyssum]

That's so stupid! My boyfriend is Costa Rican. He'd snap if anyone said that to him. And his family wouldn't even think to say anything like that! (I'm white)

[miracle_mommy2014]

We'll that's what I was saying. I did end up telling him and all she was oh well maybe she doesn't think we are doing good or something....I said well is it really any if her business anyways and he didn't say anything after.

Then he texted his brother....in pretty sure tomorrow this will be a big thing and I'll be the bad guy.....
But I mean it kinda made me feel like sh it like I'm pregnant with his baby and she's asking him stuff like that and then asking me if I'm gonna break up with him? I don't understand.

[Zydia]

Thats ur bfs preferance and if she dont like it oh well ... it doesnt matter what race you are in the end we all bleed the same color ... dont sweat it girl its none of her business who he dates she needs to stay focused on her own relationship

[rachaelbutsch]

I think its none of her damn businesses what you do with your bf ... she was out ta bounds talking to him like that and asking you question like that ya know

[miracle_mommy2014]

Bump....