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annoying significant other???

Is it me or is ur bf/fiance/hudband the most annoying person right now???? I feel like I am going craazzy!!! Everything he does / or doesn't do is annoying and I wish I was alone. Sometimes I feel liike I hate him so much I have to tell myself ...its just the pregnancy hormones and this feeliing will go away:(
Will this feeling go away???
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Wow great comments ladies... its awesome to know I am not alone!!!just ready for this emotional rollercoaster to end lol and finally meet our little guy:)
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The first trimester I did! Even some of the second. Couldn't stand to see him. Now all I want is to be with him
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Yes! Yes! Yes! Thank you! I feel the same way a lot, and it's causing problems. Ugh!
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I didnt start feeling that way with my husband until probably around 8 months. And it was on and off maybe a 1-2x/week. I just had to talk myself down after going off.. like, okay he loves me- i have no reason to be angry at him- its just my hormones.  Now that im 39+6 im just so happy to have him by my side to be my support. Youd much rather have their support then push them away- try and remember that :) good luck!
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I was already constantly irritated with my boyfriend before I got pregnant. Now at 30 weeks, I'm starting to do better with him. But it may just be bc he's learned to steer clear of me unless he knows I'm in a good mood, and he's been buying me stuff left and right I think trying to suck up. Like mothers day weekend I got my promise ring. He's been paying for me to go get my nails done. He bought me my first gun yesterday. And all kinds of new stickers for my car. And my First from the vault Grateful Dead album.  Totally taking advantage of it.  
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It feels like my boyfriend and I have gotten even closer during this pregnancy. We love being around each other and he's super protective. We miscarried our last baby so that might have something to do with it. Pregnancy hormones seem to effect some women more than others and they effect everyone differently.. your poor s/o lol
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My mister has been very understanding and supportive. My first pregnancy I was 19 and alone, so depressed and felt hopeless, this time i feel like I actually have someone who can and will be with me through anything. Yeah we have our moments but the joys definitely outweigh the stresses... good luck ladies! I know I'm definitely glad that I'm in single digits now tho
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Yesssssss sooooo annnooyyyyying..... Especially right now
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My husband's first wife wouldn't even let him touch or talk to her belly she was so annoyed by him. I am super clingy and get upsey when he doesn't do those things! Lol. However these might be just a difference in relationships for him...
But I've heard it's pretty normal for either so I wouldn't worry. Make sure you communicate with your SO though, whatever it may be. Even just sit him down and explain, I'm pregnant and i know you're not doing it on purpose, by everything you do is irritating me, it very well might be my hormones, I'll try to watch myself if you'll try too. (Yes I've done this, and explained it to my step daughter also because she likes to push my buttons, like any kid). Or it may help you, because it does me when I'm grumpy or pissy, take a breath when you're getting irritated and try to think if the same situation would happen while you were not pregnant would it still upset you? And just go from there. Or wait it out, like someone else said.
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I was this way towards my boyfriend the first half of pregnancy. I'm 30 weeks now and I feel like I started loving him again just a few weeks ago lol. Everything he did and said would **** me off and sometimes it would **** me off that he wasn't pissing me off so I would pick a fight with him. Crazy. It's all good now though, glad I'm not the only one
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I was always like that in first trimester! It's awful, especially coz I am normally smitten with him. This is my third pregnancy so I was expecting it this time...if I had nothing nice to say I just stayed quiet, but I was pretty silent coz all I could think of were complaints! Hormones have settled down in second trimester so I'm much better now... Hopefully yours improve soon too!
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During my first pregnancy I totally felt this way.. even him being asleep at night bothered me lol crazy! This second time I'm so in love with him I am super clingy I just want to be all over him 24/7
First pregnancy was a girl we are now expecting a boy no idea if it matters that's just how things played out. But yes I remember those days hahaha! This will definitely change just give yourself some time.
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I don't have those feelings towards my husband but I've seen other women say they do it could just be your hormones
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