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12302967 tn?1437575065

men!....anyone else?

My husband wants to cuddle all the time and doesn't understand that when I'm not feeling good that I don't want my belly touched and I just want my space....he takes it as I am distant and don't talk to him anymore.....anyone else get this too?
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12302967 tn?1437575065
I'm sure once I'm out of my first trimester it will be better
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The whole of first trimester I didnt want my husband near me. Even him just breathing next to me wud annoy me let alone hugs. I cudnt even sleep next to him so I wud sleep opposite direction lol. He did feel hurt bt I always made sure to make him understand that it was definatly the pregnancy hormones. When I reached second trimester I dnt know what changed but I couldnt keep my hands off lol. Complete change. So when I changed, my husband would act hard to get as revenge for what I put him through and I would tell him intead of acting hard to get he should take advantage as we wouldnt know how I would be in the last trimester lol. And now that im in 3rd trimester Im so uncomfortable that I just cant be bothered to make an effort! Lol
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Mine is the opposite we barely cuddle and I would like to cuddle more often but oh well I don't bother him itheer
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12654249 tn?1439947816
I honest agree lol I be feeling like throwing up and he still be all over me ugh and please I be hot So I be snappy a lot but he understands lol
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I am the opposite I always want to cuddle and my husband dosent like to cuddle
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I'm exactly the same when he touches me.etc I'm like get off me
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12302967 tn?1437575065
Lol I deff will give him my feet next time, that's a good one. At least I'm not the only one. I'm glad he isn't shying away from us though
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Exactly!!! I'm 38 weeks and completely miserable so on days I can't breathe and hurting and del so hot that I'm melting yeah cuddling is the LAST thing I want to do lol
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If he insists on being touchy, put your feet in his lap and tell him to touch away!
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12302967 tn?1437575065
I mean I love the attention froM him but if I feel like I'm gonna throw up I don't want to be strapped down
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Sounds like my husband lol. He wants to be cuddly at the wrong times and gets upset when I don't want to and becomes an ******* for the rest of the day or night. So it comes down to putting my foot down and having my space and dealing with an ******* orrrrrr suffer with him being clingy....it's a lose lose situation lol.
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It only bothers me when im really hot to start with....
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Lol I'm in the totally opposite position.. my boyfriend never touches me or cuddles me and it drives me nuts.. be thankful ! Don't know many girls who would complain about that..
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