mother & boyfriend

[MommyMoet415]

Ok i moved to north carolina last year to be with my man and thats when i got pregnant and during the time i was up there i was fired because boss found out i was pregnant so i had a hard time getting a job my boyfriend worked n went to school but it was still hard for us i ended up moving bck to jacksonville with my mom to have more help and support and now im 7 months pregnant and the baby is coming soon and my mom doesnt even want my bf around she doesnt like him but has no reason not to like him and i just want everyone to get along but i also want my family to be together but my mom doesnt want that for me and idk wat to do i dnt wanna have to choose between my mom and my bf that i have been with for 5 years now

[MommyMoet415]

Thanks and i hope things get better in the future for us my man is good to me and is trying hard for his family and he really wants to be in his daughter life and the crazy thing about it my mom loves my ex's that abused me and cheated on my she treats them like royalty and i dont get that the man i am with right now has never cheated and never stopped loving me since the day we met you know my mom saw all the sweet messages he sent to me and the cards and love letters he has given  to me and she talks junk about it like he's a ***** for being so sweet to me she hates it but i love it she's not even gonna allow him to come over to see our baby

[mamabear2015]

Maybe in the future, your bf will make enough money to support you and baby and y'all will live happily ever after as a little loving family and your mom will love being Grandma

[mamabear2015]

You are old enough to make your own decisions and will soon have to make them for your little one too, so do what you feel is best for you and your baby. If your boyfriend is good for you and treats you right and wants to be with you and his baby then you should give him a chance. Your mom is probably afraid that you will get hurt and is trying to protect you. But she needs to realize this is your decision and none of her business.  You can choose to have both of them in your life by calmly talking to both of them about how you feel. Let your mom know that you know she loves you and only wants the best for you but that when she tells you she doesn't like your bf, it stresses you out. You would like for everyone to just get along and support you during this stressful time in your life