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9525685 tn?1410800512

my husband has lost his mind if anyone finds it please return ut with a prayer

So even before my pregnancy i have always gotten nauseous when smelling bleach and Ajax tonight i cleaned the bathroom because Cleary he can't aim correctly afterwards i got really sick and light headed i don't use alot of chemicals and always mix it in a bucket of water anyway as I'm laying he comes in our room yelling talking about sit my *** down somewhere stop doing **** to complain about it and if i know it makes me sick don't do it!all that yelling and coursing yet he's never lifted a hand to clean i love my husband but he drives me insane vent over! !is there anyway to clean and not smell the chemicals?
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9525685 tn?1410800512
Thank you ladies
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I have two sons. Try clorax wipes.  Same great disinfecting but smells not like bleach and more like a fresh scent or lemon or orange depending on the scent you buy.  Easy and clean afterward and you won't get sick.  

As to your partner, he was worried.  My husband, I've learned over the years, gets kind of abrupt with me when I'm sick or hurting because he is not great at feeling helpless.  He likes to fix things.  

He was concerned and that is how it came out.  

But my two boys can clean up their own 'missed' attempts with these wipes so think you can probably use it too without being sick.  
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Wear a mask and try not mixing bleach with other household cleaning chemicals becuase it can make gases that makes you sick or worse.
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9525685 tn?1410800512
Joli i'm going to look into green works sounds like a winner
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Yeah my husband works pretty hard too but so do I lol so.i don't see why he can't pitch in here or there to clean specially his mess@ aranazasmom and brezzy21612 will definitely buy some thanks @motherofnugget1411 glad i could make you laugh
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DON'T USE HARSH CHEMICALS. TRY Green works, Green products that's not toxic or melaluca. Take care.
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The title of the post gave me a laugh that I really needed
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same hear my bf acts that way too but it's just I think he is just so tierd from work, he works in the fields and that's hard work :/ so I wouldn't have him getting all that done for me anyways
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Maybe try a respirator mask, you can get em at Wal-Mart. Thats what i use so your breathing in filtered air and you csnt really smell the chemicals. I had to start using a mask and gloves to change my kitties litter box, my husband refused to do that for me even tho its not safe to do so while pregnant.
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If i don't clean around the house period it won't get done lol
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9525685 tn?1410800512
Good idea i will definitely look into that i have seen it at Wal-Mart i believe and yeah my husband doesn't think before he talks if i don't clean the bathroom it won't get done
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And men are stupid lol they don't have any sympathy they think we do these things for attention or just because. they don't understand that more than half the stuff we can't control... Like my boyfriend would say something rude (I thought was rude) that would make me start bawling he would yell at me And say that my tears aren't gonna make him feel bad...
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Go green... I use simple green... Smells good and is perfectly fine for baby... But before I switched I'd vent the crap out of my bathroom I'd turn the air vent on and put a small fan In there with the door open... Cause I'd get light headed too...
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9525685 tn?1410800512
That's a good idea thanks i will definitely try that next time
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Maybe take some tiny breaks to get some fresh air could help
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