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my husband told me he is going to pursue other women...

Hi ladies,
My husband works nights. Last nnight when he got home at 5am I heard him in the kitchen flipping out.. apparently he went thru my phone out of paranoia searching for proof that I was cheating. I'm not clearly, I'm 24 weeks pregnant, and all that he found we some sexy selfies I took a year ago. I'm not sure how that qualifies as "cheating" but he says that is proof I am absolutely cheating. Not to mention we just moved back in with me after his girlfriend  kicked him out a month ago. I literally took him back, we have been going to counselling, and I have been praying to God to just have my family whole again. I think my husband is out of his mind. He changed his password on his phone and was gone with my son all day without answering my phone calls. I told him if he plans on seeing and being intimate wi th other women that he will have to move out. He says he will kick me out and even fight for custody if I try to make him leave for cheating on me... im at a loss, I trusted him and wanted to believe he would be faithful and want our family together especially  with a new baby on the way. I'm in a state of shock . What should I do?
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Thanks I will
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i will pray  for  you  God  can  do  great  miracles  just  have  faith  and  give  everything  to  God  the  devil  is  a  liar keep  strong  don't  lose  hope pray  for  him.
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I can feel where yhur coming from I'm 35weeks and my ex cheated on me when I was 4 months and got his ex pregnant and forgot about me it hurt because I wanted my little family to work and he told me he did too. But I have learned that I have to move on I will allow him in our child's life but I won't deal with his bs especially since for the last few months his been acting controlling not wanting me even talking to another male including his brother bt he goes and stays out for days. Me personally I'm only 18 and he is only 19 bt ik I don't want that mess in my life or my child's life and ik for the safety and health of the child its better for some parents to be apart
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